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We've been dating for 2 years now and I still don't enjoy giving blowjobs that I always hesitate now. It's a huge turn off that despite him knowing that I don't feel comfortable giving blowjobs, he keeps asking for one or says it and takes it back, responding with, "It's okay, I can do it myself" with a pout. I don't know what to do. He keeps asking for it and I've told him that me being uncomfortable doesn't equal his worth. I still am sexually attracted to him, but blowjobs are off the table. His cum smells bad, his penis smells like urine mixed with sweat, and the taste is really strong, sour, and overwhelming. If I try to ask him to change his diet or clean himself before giving it to him because I still want to please him, he gets really offended. He told me that everybody else he dated liked his cum, so it's unbelievable that I don't like it. He also tasted himself before and likes it. I don't think he'll change for me. On several occasions during fights, he brings up not feeling wanted or craving intimacy. The thing is, I like intercourse. It feels good, and both of us get pleasure from it, but all he ever wants is a blowjob. He told me that he would rather have blowjobs than penetrate someone for the rest of his life and I kind of got offended that he was being selfish. >_< He also gets mad at me because he tells me that he licks my nipples, so I should give him oral. But does that make sense? Doesn't my nipples equate to his nipples? And his dick equate to my vagina if we're talking about comparisons? Sometimes, he tells me to shower more because I smell and I take that into consideration. But when I suggest showering together first before the bj if he smells, he gets upset? He doesn't give me oral that much either, since he thinks my nipples are equal to dick sucking. >_< I don't know. He asks for it every day. And every day I feel frozen and don't know what to do.
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