I hate being so pretty , any other girls feel this way?

[Anonymous]

I grew up with low self esteem since girls were mean to me and would criticize EVERYTHING I did, everyone would always join in to laugh. I was like a target. Eyes were always on me. guys also never gave me the slightest attention & were mean to me as well. I always thought I was ugly or something was wrong with me. Now I'm 18, and it seems like EVERYONE wants a piece of me. Some of my friends want to have 3somes w me, random gay/bi people have told me "Bitch you got it! You fine ass hell" , guys see me walking and get out of their cars to try to get my #, some of my bff's boyfriends have even tried to get with me. But being pretty doesn't always work in my favor. Once I was w this guy having sex & his friend (a 40 year old man) was hiding somewhere in the bed room and he raped me, while the other guy held me down. That man only wanted me because of the way I looked. I'm not used to being the center of attention when I walk in a room, or having guys falling at my feet. I hate the attention I get , but I feel like it's inevitable, and I'm not getting used to it. And people are usually surprised when they realize I'm really nice & silly & bubbly. It makes me uncomfortable. & I've never had a boyfriend b4 and the guys that I would talk to would treat me like shit. One guy left me stranded in a park for hours, and another answered a FaceTime call from a girl RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME, he started talking to her otp even tho I CAME to see him. Guys only want to use me, take advantage of my kindness, or mistreat me, even some of my closest friends I have discovered to be Unsupportive & fake... I'm always the person getting hurt, I always care more, I'm always the last to let go, and always end up heartbroken, by friends & guys. & people think I have all the confidence in the world and they joke around w me a lot but sometimes it really hurts my feelings and gets to me. I don't know 😐 are there any other girls out there with similar problems or stories? Thank you ❤️💗

[Machiavelli]

Sorry to hear that, but I have similar problems, hope you're not trolling because people do face these challenges. I just don't talk to anyone and focus on my career, I use men for sex too and avoid them, even though I've been celibate for a long time because I'm bored of that now. Just understand that many people don't like themselves and you'll see that it doesn't matter that they don't like you. I don't hate being pretty, I have thought that maybe when I am old and less appealing people will stop being weird but now I'm 30 and still look the same I just grew cold and being a lone wolf eventually makes you hard and confident so why would you wish to change your looks, that is the easy way out. Are you small?, because that is the biggest problems of pretty girls. If you're taller people don't really screw with you.

[Nora_90]

Similar story with me. Although I was not that attractive when I was younger and people would patronise me all the time. I hated that. My self esteem lowered so much I hated myself and thought everybody was just using me of my kindness and taking advantage of me as I was very shy and quiet.

But now I'm a lot older. Puberty changed me haha. So everyone that patronised me look at me very different now. They try to be friends with me again. Boys would start to check me out so much but I felt like I was attracting the creeps too.. so no you're not alone on this one 😊

[linachanxo]

Yes, pretty girls do have it hard. Trust me I know..

[Dingsbums]

I hope u went to the police after this guy raped you..
And yeah it sounds bad what u experienced in your life. Not all people are like that usually. U need to find the genuine people somehow

[JamesCX]

This shit is gold... only G@G could offer content this fine. They should hire you!

[akadatank44]

You're around some people who aren't your friends. And stop hooking up with guys if you want a serious relationship. You attract the wrong guys that way.

[Midget_Hug]

Bummer

[Anonymous]

Me, all my friends wanted to date me. They were pissed when I wouldn't make up lies and my boyfriend and I'd fight over it all the time. I chalked it up to having a vagina. I'm not pretty I'm just a fucked up girl.

[Anonymous]

Make yourself ugly