Good guy vs. Bad guy (woman)- who is better in bed?

[Kacik]

Of course this cannot obviously apply on ALL, but - let´s consider the majority (even if it were like 2/3). I apologize for the wording if it comes out wrong, it is in no way meant to be offensive or anything like that. I came across this article on my home page saying that GoodGuys (GG) are better in bed than BadGuys (BG).

They made their case by describing the most common personality traits and a study:

GG: self-confident but not arogant, emotionally stable, consider other people equally important and value their family/friends/SO means, keep most of their promises (call if they said they would), reliable, intimate, have better attitude towards children
BG: self-confident but arogant, otherwise the opposite of above, love only the best picture of their SO (when s/he gets upset, sad, has her period or has break-outs on her skin, they tend to avoid her/him, they´re not there for their SO, when they needs them.

Study included 500 uni students: those who were considered as "kind" by women had sex more often, were in long-terms relationships more often or longer. Second part of the study hypothesized that if guys that would donate the winning in the lottery to charity (if they won) were getting more sex than those who wouldn't give anything. It also said that kind people are equally competitive or assertive.

Stereotype appparantly says that kind means weak and it actually isn´t true.

I realize that the article does not evaluate the quality of sex, just the frequency.

To be honest if I should compare sex with GG and BG, the GG were more attentive (not necessarily more gentle ;-) ) and I enjoyed it more than with BG (had 3) which I´d describe as porn-like "banging".

The questions are: What are your experiences - can you compare? Do you agree with the article - do you want to elaborate on it? Write anything that comes to your mind to this topic really...

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Yeah I totally agree with it.

GG care for the partner more. They feel bad if the girl is hurt while performing sex. Sometimes society put label on the good guys who care for girls.

Even some aggressive girls with high sex drive call them a man with small dick, you sound like pussy, Your behavior is like a girl etc.

Even the GG get trolling from male friends. It doesn't mean that guys should leave kindness. But be strong enough that no one can put them down without losing their kindness.

BG don't know the importance of the relationship. in my opinion I would call them immature who should put their own ego at one side and leave the thinking to dominate over women and show their male power.

They should understand that women are powerful in some cases like able to bear the pain of giving birth to a child, monthly able to handle stress of periods and talking care of the children and able to understand the point of other as women have more empathy than men.

Hope it helps Madam.

[NathanStrat]

Good guys are generally considered so clean that they won't be "wild" in bed, but thats far from true, good guys are givers and are considerate of the womans needs, so she actually would get better from good guy. ;)

[Warmapplecrumble]

Good guys are better in bed, usually more sensual, more concerned about your pleasure and always in my experience have been very dominant in the right way.

I have never gone through with sex with a bad boy lol. They were too arrogant for me to accept them. ♥

[Kacik]

I agree with you. I realized they were bad boys only after... (It was kind of a last resort when I was really randy, so I wasn't so picky and overlooked some traits)

[Warmapplecrumble]

The bad guys are just very good in getting women. But keeping the woman happy sexually and emotionally is not their thing.

[ken718]

So how can you answer the question then lmfao and why the fuck are so many men answering the question

[Warmapplecrumble]

@ken718 the bad boys just were forcing themselves and got very annoyed when I said no. I don't understand why men are answering this either lmao

[ken718]

You still never fucked one tho so you don't know whose better 😜 goodguys let you walk all over them and are insecure as hell we both know women don't respect that at least we don't put up with your bullshit and put yous in your place

[Warmapplecrumble]

@ken718 lol what bullshit?

[ken718]

Attitudes, when your bitchy, etc... not the type thats gonna kiss ass and say "whats wrong honey" ill either argue and annoy her till she shuts up drop her annoying ass off or fuck her untill she shuts up lol

[Warmapplecrumble]

@ken718 why the some having attitude and bitchy attitude in the first place?

[Warmapplecrumble]

Womannn *** not some

[ken718]

I don't know yous always have attitudes sometimes you do it to test us it's that time of the month or she just feels like being petty either way I don't put up with it

[Warmapplecrumble]

@ken718 ughh if she's on her period or giving birth or pregnant... you need to comfort her... ._. I don't care, that stuff hurts

[ken718]

I know that im not a asshole lol but not really any excuses other than that to act that way

[Warmapplecrumble]

@ken718 you should always comfort... because no one can argue with someone who is nice and being logical. To defuse argument one person needs to be cool otherwise it would blow out of proportion. Best thing is to say I don't like what you are saying can you please be nice I'll give you 5 minutes and come back.

[ken718]

Im far to crazy and stubborn for that id drop em off they can take the day/month if they need to cool down idc or they can find a good guy to walk allover and put up with it

[Warmapplecrumble]

@ken718 that's what destroys relationships ego. Both need to loose ego. Ego does a lot of harm in relationships.

[ken718]

That's true

[Warmapplecrumble]

@ken718 yeah but I don't like it when my ego is harmed lmao... I start doing bitchy things._. *sigh* I dislike that.

[ken718]

Me either lol so it usually continues but everyone does it just some guys react differently when women get like that

[Warmapplecrumble]

@ken718 usually I just walk out and if anyone stops me I explode lol

[ken718]

I usually get turned on by angry women lol so i wanna fool around or ill just go out

[Warmapplecrumble]

@ken718 eehhhh my partner says same thing... why you like angry women. Lmao I feel like he destroys something in the kitchen to just get me started.

[ken718]

Im just crazy lol but usually the sex is better makeup sex is the best to me and the wild look in their eyes when mad just gets me I don't know why

[Warmapplecrumble]

@ken718 lol need to teach boyfriend to have sex when I'm angry lmao

[ken718]

Should its fun goodluck

[Warmapplecrumble]

@ken718 I will try this one xD lmao thanks good luck too

[Warmapplecrumble]

Thanks for the MHO ♥

[martyfellow]

The trouble with such studies is there is no way to tell if the guys are telling the truth

[Kacik]

As with any study based on Q and A I guess

[TomBradysJersey]

TBH I don't know how I feel about this...

[TomBradysJersey]

I don't know how I should feel because I consider myself a GG

[Kacik]

flattered? :D

[TomBradysJersey]

Well here's the thing I think majority of girls will choose bad boys or at least that's what I've seen so far.

[Decentguy]

i think it all has to do with the person, it has nothing to do with being bad or good.

[masterkamasutra]

bad guys are best fuckers and girls love them.

[Anonymous]

Submission is a woman's natural state and woman are happiest when submitting to the will of their husband or father. The rise in feminism has left a lot of women unhappy in life and 1 out of 4 women are on anti depressants.
Sometimes it's necessary when my wife isn't acting right, refusing to keep the house cleaning and have a meal prepared for when I come home from work. I tried to discuss her disrespectful behavior but she flew into a rage and attacked me so I grabbed her and put her across my knee hitched up her skirt pulled down her panties and with the palm of my hand spanked her bottom as hard as I could for 10 minutes. Her ass was red raw and she couldn’t sit down for a week. She ran home to her parents who were discusted by her behaviour and her father threatened to take his belt to her. After a week she realised how wrong she had been andrawn apologised, we had amazing make up sex. Ever since she's been as good as gold putting maximum effort into our marriage and is now pregnant. It was all just a classic shit test to test my limits and of course if I hadn't disciplined her she would not respect me. She is happier now sumitting to my will and being the good helper the lord intended.

[Warmapplecrumble]

Lol what is this story