Why do guys want to finger a girl's butthole?

Im asking this coz my boyfriend has always wanted to do it but i dont mind it. But last night when we were having sex and doing doggy, he told me he fingered my butthole. But I don't know i was confused.. i never felt it going in my butthole lol. I thought he fingered my vajayjay lol But anyway.. why do guys want to do this? Do most guys like it?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Sometimes, people will do to you what they want to have done to them. When you penetrate a guy's behind, it puts pressure on the prostate gland and that tremendously increases the arousal from the hand job, blow job, or whatever else you are doing to him. Next time he does that, give him some anal play and you will probably have a happy camper.

    • oh hell no lol. i will not do that

    • Why not?

    • I personally wouldn't do that because I know my guy doesn't clean himself well enough down there

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  • we love it coz it tight.
    but fingering?
    hmm... let's see... I don't know about fingering the ass. I do it to just make space for my cock before i enter her. Mayb he thinks that fingering you anally gives you pleasure.

    in such kinds of situation it is better if you both communicate and understand what each other wants.

Most Helpful Girls

  • The question is, do you like it? If you're not into, tell him no. Also, you can totally tell if there's a finger in your butt. He didn't finger your butt.

    • Some women like it's some women don't... it can be very pleasurable for both parties

  • Because in doggy a guy is staring into our bootyhole. They get tempted to finger it to add in extra fun

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  • All guys dreams about anal. It seems strange to me too. But I love it. I like the feeling when he is inside. It feels so good. But painful special if you are beginner.

  • some guys have an obsession with arses and i guess that he just wants to get that little bit closer to you i guess haha

    • he's an ass guy lol. i dont mind it tho. 😂😂

    • yeah i think its purely because the visual stimulation or tactike stimulation overwelms them so the next impulse is to do some exploring xD

    • tactile*

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  • Try fingering your own butthole for a while. See if you can figure out why he liked it. I can only assume he's looking for something

    • looking for what lmao

    • I do not believe me and you are good enough friends yet to openly explore the possibilities of what might be in your butthole

  • I think I will let others address the issue of why a guy may like this. Let me advise you, though, never let your boyfriend finger you anally and then finger you vaginally or you can get a raging bacterial infection. If he wants to switch like that, make him wash his hands with soap and water.
    ~JSmith


  • So they can gather a golden nugget on their finger

  • Ass is for exit only!

  • That is disgusting. I don't know about everyone else but to me it is.

  • personally no who the fuck would finger ass

    • lol why not? wouldn't u do anal?

  • some Guys are really anal fixes:-)

  • that's nasty af 😷 i make a wall between the two lol dont Eva wanna cross that border ill stay in Vcity. 😂😂

  • he's pretty much testing you. I wouldn't be surprised if he brought a plug or a toy next

    • lol fuck that no way

    • Don't knock it till you try it dude

  • I don't. That means I'll get shit on my finger! 😷😷🤒

  • because he wants to do anal sex?

    • yeh he asked but i said no.. i dont mind getting fingered in my butthole or licked there tho 😝

    • I love performing a rim job

  • i have never had sex but i don't see a problem with fingering girls buttholes and it would make it a little bit looser so that a guy could insert to anal a girl.

  • I just enjoy anal play

  • We're testing the waters to get you ready for full-on anal. But even bitches who don't like, or want, anal seem to enjoy a finger up the ass. Especially when they are getting oral.

  • It’s fun

  • that is nasty

  • I do it because she likes it and it loosens her up a little before anal

  • Well your boyfriend is a disgusting person lol and I don't think most guys are into that.

    • lol thought guys are into experimenting 😂😂 i enjoy it tho 😉

    • Ugh.. doesn't it hurt when you go into the toilet? :D

    • um its not anal lol😂 its just a finger

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