Does my husband have a butt fetish? Answer butt fetishist?

He likes to play mostly with my butt during intimacy
he'll massage it
rub his finger in my butthole
look at my butthole?
rub his penis up and down in between my cheeks
smack my butt
he even kisses/sucks my buttcheeks
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  • There is nothing wrong with him wanting to do those things to your butt. However, there might be an issue if he doesn't pay attention to the rest of your body. For example, he should be playing with your pussy too during foreplay. I don't think it is the label of "butt fetishist" that really matters. The important thing is that he is willing to put your pleasure ahead of his own, at least part of the time.

  • I do all of that, I even tongue the butthole. Maybe you just have a really delicious and gorgeous ass, that doesn't necessarily make him a butt fetishist.

    • Why do you do that?

    • Its so fun my girlfriend loves when I rim her it feels good against my tongue in there and its so tight to tongue fuck I'm unsure what drew me to needing to try it exactly but I wanted to do since even before I was it depicted in porn, like before middle school even. Just seemed like another intimate thing to do on a girl with the added rush of being taboo I guess

    • Yeah, I don't think behaviors like that stem from porn It's more natural and instinctive

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  • sounds hot :)

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  • Yes he is maybe he's also trying to spice things up

  • the only thing that would indicate the fetish is the looking. It's possible he has the fetish.
    do you think it's weird if he has that?

  • sounds like more of a obsession Than a fetish.

  • He's an ass guy. Is it technically a fetish? probably not quite. Plus it's not that unusual.

  • I'm not sure I'd call it a fetish, but sounds like he's definitely an ass man. Does it get your engine running or is it a turn off? Either way, you might want to talk with him about it.

    • It's a turn on but I don't like the fact that I have to feel insecure when a nice butt walks past us lol :o

    • You don't have to feel insecure. Insecurity is an emotion, which means you can learn to overcome it. Insecurity is a choice. You can talk to him about it and try to build more confidence in your own booty or, build trust with him in that area.

    • I'm gonna get a butt job haha jk You're right- thanks

  • Maybe yeah. I think liking butts is normal but at the same time there's a point where it gets a little weird.

  • he might. however, you should be aware that the word fetish is very overused word. it's actually only a fetish if it's abnormal to perceive the thing as sexual.

    however, it also counts as a fetish if he sexualizes your ass to the complete exclusion of all your other sexual body parts.

  • i think he does. do you like it or not by the way

    • I do but it's kinda like woah haha

    • haha can i ask if you have ever done anal together?

    • sorry quite a personal question

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  • He's allowed to do that because he's trying to get you aroused!

  • You must be having a magnificent butt which makes him do all the above this is no way fetish as all he`s doing is out of admiration , if you wish to go further , ask him to rim your sphincter

  • Yeah he's an assman lol

  • yes but it hot don't you think loveing his wife's ass or like me just an ass man

  • Yeah he dies. I have a butt fetish as well.
    But im not into rimming and not always into anal. I do think of anal from time to time tough.
    Mostly its just an obsession of how beautiful the butt looks and feels

    • Do you stare at every nice butt, isn't it a distraction

    • Its a curse, but its a pleasant one. You do have to learn to lock your eyes tough, its very easy to come off as a creep if id let my nature take over. But when i get a green light, and no one notices i do look at them 😊

    • What if you're in a relationship and your partner doesn't like it?

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  • What's the question?
    He's your husband, did you not know this before going in?

  • he is an assassin

    • lol😂😂😂😂

    • Goodwood you nailed it

  • wow, he's into your butt.. I'm sure you got awesome ass

  • All seems fairly normal to me

  • sounds like you have a gorgeous ass. he could be hinting that he wants to try anal during sex.

  • omg... I wish I could do the same... lol... just kidding 😉😛😉

  • it seems normal to me

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