What is the normal time it takes for men to finish?
What is considered to be a normal time during sex for a guy to cum Weather it be a Blow Job, Hand Job, Intercourse (whatever position). I ask because there have been times that I have cum in less then 2 minutes and there have been times that I have taken over an hour. Is there such a thing as a normal or standard time it would take for a guy to cum? And ladies what do you prefer, a guy that can cum fast, takes a while, or one that can switch it up and be fast sometimes and slow others?
What's Your Opinion?
Most Helpful Opinion
As far as my experience goes I would not say there is an average time for a guy to cum. It just depends on the situation. I mean I know if you have alot of foreplay right before you do anything that can build you up and them either make you cum really fast or do the complete opposite.
What Girls Said 2
I am not an expert by any means and I don't have a lot of experience with a lot of different guys but I can say that there is probably not a normal time. It may depend a lot on the situation. I mean that the time leading up to the actual act is making you really horny and it is just about the sex then I would expect it to happen faster. If it is more about passion and love it usually takes longer. When my husband does seem to cum fast it usually means that we are in for a long night of sex because the second time will take longer. I don't mind that because I am able to experience multiple orgasms then.
There is no normal time. Two minutes is a little fast but can be ok if you can get hard again. An hour can be too long for some woman, but I actually like surprises and the all night marathons are fantastic.
What Guys Said 4
With non-stop vigorous thrusting, usually between 5-10 minutes. That's why the trick is to not do much of the thrusting all at once, and not all of it vigorously.
P.E. is a big problem...
We are just another animal and are designed to get it over quick so if you want to last you can't just go at it like a dog. You have to pace your self. Sometimes slowing down can be very pleasurable. It's not all about banging away.
This is funny but when I was a virgin I actually compared the time to porno scenes. They usually are around 12-15 minutes, so when I first had sex, I tried to hold off for 12 minutes. I shit you not. I actually would look at the clock on the night stand. And I did it. The girl loved it and said for my first time I was amazing and that I lasted for a good time. And she wasn't a virgin by the way. So I would say 10 to 15 minutes. 30 minutes if you're doing some lovey dovey stuff. But actually pumping should be no more than 10 I think. After an hour it just starts getting boring, you run out of positions, and the girl even starts drying up.