He won't cum in me? How do I get him to try it once?
So, I finally asked why he keeps pulling out. He says that is what he's used to and always done. The girls he's been with haven't all been on birth control. I asked, "well you don't want to try it just once to see what it's like? I think you're missing out on the best part." He responded with, "I'm used to pulling out. I think it would feel weird if I didn't." WTF
So, my main point is that sex feels so much better when you share in the other person getting off. I think it's a turn on and it gets me off. Sex just ends so abruptly and weird pulling out... I feel like I'm in high school.
I would respect and understand this better if he at least TRIED it then said, "Nah, I don't like it." But he won't even try it!!! I feel like he's focused so hard on not blowing his load too quickly then he's focusing on making sure he pulls out in time... that has gotta make sex way less enjoyable if you can't let loose? Right?
He's not very vocal during sex either. I'm the only one making any kind of sounds. I think he's focused so much on holding it in & trying to make me go first.
I want him to fully enjoy having sex and let loose and just nut all inside of me instead of it being so procedural.
How do I get him to TRY it ONCE? & how do I get him to let loose? Is ejaculating quickly that big of a fear? & why is he being weird about going inside of me?
I don't get it 🙈.
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