I've tried fingering myself and don't feel anything at all. Is there a problem with me?

[Anonymous]

This is a little uncomfortable to ask but well. So recently, out of curiosity, I tried adding a finger inside my lady parts for the first time. It did hurt a little but then I got used to it, however I felt nothing at all. No pleasure and not even pain. Just pure nothing, just a slight discomfort. So this is it? This is how my sex life is going to be or is there something wrong with me down there?

[Bigolbastard]

Being nervous or scared can really change how it feels. Sex is mostly mental, not physical. Sometimes when stroking my penis it can feel like stroking an arm, 20 seconds later when my mind relaxes it can feel amazing. Sex is weird that way. Don't think one experience defines sex as a whole, it never does. Also, try stimulating the g spot. Its a little bump like thing that feels more rough than the rest of the vagina, up towards your pubic bone (towards your stomach side) if you curl your finger. Look up a diagram if you need help. That's the main pleasure center of the vagina besides the clitoris.

[Sagul]

Well, to counter with an uncomfortable question: were you sexually aroused? If not, you probably wouldn't feel anything. Same applies if you are too young. People touch their genitals almost every day, in one way or another, and it's usually not in a sexual way. I don't have any lady parts, but I believe you shouldn't feel much if you're not "into it", like the way people don't get aroused at the gynaecologist.

[Asker]

Yes, I was aroused. I wouldn't have tried it if I wasn't, in the first place. Damn this is hard to talk about with a guy

[Sagul]

Then don't think about me as a guy, just someone with experience. People like different things, try something else or do it in a different way. I can almost promise you it will feel different when being with someone else.

[Asker]

Yep, thanks. Honestly, the first thing that came to my mind when I realised that I feel no pleasure is that I won't be able to fake orgasms with a guy. Sounds like my acting abilities are lame too.

[Sagul]

Don't ever fake an orgasm. Don't fake sex or flirting in general. Just do with your body what feels good, and then do much of the same with a guy. When it's time to get down to business, you'll probably feel that you want him or yourself to do something specific.

[Anonymous]

Yeah. It feels good when I touch my clit but not hole. Fingering myself feels kinda good but barely. I think vaginal sex would feel good for us though - but I'm not sure cause I'm a virgin.

[tinyclit]

Join the club. Vaginal penetration does nothing for me either. In fact it's just annoying. My clitoris is where all the action is. That's one reason why I like oral sex so much. :)

[Anonymous]

It'll get better as you learn. Trust me , I was the same the first time I fingered myself.
Don't worry about it right now

[Asker]

I don't, but it's kinda weird.

[InfoBot]

Some girls get little to nothing from finger penetration during masturbation, you're not alone with that. It doesn't have to have any bearing on how penis penetration will feel to you.

[Alexgagnon]

step one in having good sex is to know your own body and what you do/don't like. you also only have feeling 2 inches deep in the vagina. my girlfriend doesn't feel it unless I use two or more fingers

[septemberangel118]

I would recommend seeing a doctor.

[Mitch6192]

Your clit is your pleasure centre, not the hole. Try rubbing instead. I'm sure the girls on here will be able to help out more than a guy, though.

[Asker]

I don't need masturbation tips, I know how to use my clit. It just worries me that I don't feel anything.. you know, down there.

[Mitch6192]

You don't feel anything in your clit? I thought you were talking about inserting fingers inside. Your clit has got 8,000 nerve endings in it. The hole hasn't got any, really (Due to it being used for child-birth) Maybe see a doctor if there's no feeling in your clit.

[Sai13199]

u have nothing wrong in ur lady parts... but u should feel like having sex at that time...
better luck next time... post it experience too...
tq

[Seppelson]

how can you feel uncomfortable if you ask anonym?

[Anonymous]

just keep experimenting.

[Anonymous]

I feel the same way, don't feel anything when I rub my clit either