Is it wrong to masturbate in private whilst in a relationship?

Question

If you're in a happy relationship with good sex is it wrong to masturbate in private without your partner knowing?

Nodachi · Accepted Answer

Not at all. Sometimes there is a difference in libidos and I'd rather that happened than having an expectancy to have sex when I wasn't personally up for it at that particular moment. I'm extremely bad at faking emotions, and I loathe having to do so. More than I loathe most things. But with sex your partner would want you to seem into it so there would be the pressure to lie. I just... couldn't bring myself to do that. I would rather say no if I don't want to at that time, and I think that would not be a reflection of my overall feelings for the relationship. I'd feel like I was being insincere with myself otherwise. It is what it is there.

So if I, or my partner wanted to do that. I honestly don't care. It's a good outlet and I think has very little baring on a relationship as a whole. I can't think of a scenario where it would stop the growth of a relationship other than if someone took offense to it without offense being given. Which just kind of makes you insecure in my books to be honest.

septemberangel118 · Accepted Answer

No, but typically guys like to know if their girlfriend is masturbating because for some it is a turn on. He may even ask to watch if he knew.

Wonderer89 · Accepted Answer

I don't really understand why it needs to be kept a secret, masturbation is a normal and perfectly healthy and acceptable thing

Being_a_good_Indian · Accepted Answer

in my opinion it's not at all wrong in masturbating while in relationship.

Masturbation is one of the need of the body. It must be satisfied if one feels that it is needed. Sometimes people suppress the need of the body by considering as cheating the partner.

I believe that it will ultimately increase the sexual stress in the body and increase the tension of the mind.

It is not always possible for the partner to do sex with the person. It might be due to various reasons.

I would suggest to masturbate to satisfy the need of body though person is in relationship. Telling the partner or hiding it is individual choice based on unďerstanding between both.

Hope it helps.

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

No. They aren't always there either physically or emotionally or sexually.

ShaunaM95 · Answer

Not at all. It's perfectly normal.

Justacatlady · Answer

No, not at all. There are times where all you want is a quick orgasm without all the work.

faraz_hussain · Answer

i think no its ok.

ushagomez · Answer

It is normal to enjoy some private time and there is no reason for that to be secret either really.

SnapTsch · Answer

perfectly normal, because sometime you just need the release and you guy isn't going to be around all the time

also, not to forget that its a part of you alone time and personal space which makes it as non debatable issue

Doglover666 · Answer

Seems silly, I save all my sex for my husband

ThisDudeHere · Answer

A better question would be it it's wrong to be in a private relationship whilst masturbating?

Cody01 · Answer

nope..., these dots are filler dots

Pro14340 · Answer

To masturbate or not to masturbate it's ur own choice. Ur relationship status have nothing to do with it. So Why would it be wrong?

Dargil · Answer

Nope. Keeps the plumbing in top condition.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

No it's not wrong to masturbate while in privacy area when in a relationship.

Caaarl · Answer

It's healthy. You don't have to try and hide it just be open if he asks it's normal.

Kiels01 · Answer

Nope its perfectly normal, why would it be wrong?

fueledbythc · Answer

Why would it be wrong?

titsataki · Answer

nothing wrong with it.

JustCallMeLeon · Answer

Thats a tricky one. To be honest i dont but i have great self control. It depends on the occasion. Long distance? Its essential to avoid affairs. Living together? No. Like me. I focus all of my sexual energy towards my girl. Anyways i think its sonething a couple needs to discuss. Maybe there is a problem that needs to be solved.