I used to work with a guy who was known to have a huge dick. He wasn't shy about whipping it out at parties and such, and he ended up sleeping with lots of women as a result.
I was talking with him one day after he had just broken up with the girl he had been dating for a couple of weeks, and he was really upset about it. He confided to me that he had only had a single relationship over a month long. Girls would be excited to sleep with him at first, but after once or twice, they usually broke it off. His size just wasn't comfortable for them, and once they figured that out, it was a deal breaker, and they broke up with him. He really wanted a serious girlfriend, but was afraid he'd never be able to.
Obviously, there IS such a thing as "too big".
there are studies correlating above average penis size to a less stable love live. meaning they are more likely to have breakups or not finding a partner. so i would assume that there is a "too big".
well of course there are size queens but i heard some girls say, that too big dick isn´t so much "fun" cause you can´t have spontaneous quick sex. you always have to go slow and accommodate which is a downer for some girls.
I dated a guy that made me feel I was giving birth all the time. It was a lot of work, a lot of crying and I peed blood for months because I was just pushing my limits with him. I never told him actually, I just kept it to myself, I was glad when he started treating me like shit because I had a reason to leave him. Before I couldn't leave him because I felt like I owed him for taking me in when I needed a place to stay.
@Machiavelli yeah there is "every day pleasure dick" and there´s "exotic challange dick" XD most girls don´t want the latter for every day ^^
@Machiavelli I don't have to worry about that, but your post still made me clench my thighs!
Even an average size penis can cause pain for me in the wrong positions or with too deep of penetration. So an unusually big penis would probably be difficult for me. But not necessarily impossible. As long as he is willing to be cautious and listen to my needs in order to avoid hurting me, I'm sure we could figure something out.
Yes. I have a tight shallow vagina. Anything thick or above 6“ is going to hurt a lot no matter how lubricated I am.
Its not a full out no but he would need to work with me and build up my ability to handle him
If the dude looked so big he was gonna hurt me, then I wouldn't. I've only been with one dude so I don't really have much experience with different sizes but like 9 inches just seems unnecessary :P
I was dating a guy and he was WAY to big it was a huge turn off and yep in the end we didn't work out as it was an issue for us!!
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I dont think Id say no outright, but Id sure be hesitant when it comes to certain positions.
Sexual compatibility is important to a healthy relationship, and I am not afraid to admit that I love sex. If I can't enjoy sex with him, we're not going to work out.
by the way, 7.5 length. I'm less deep than normal, because of a tilted cervix.
But I've been with a guy that was close to 11 with no discomfort or pain, because he knew what the hell he was doing, and how to use what he had.
Honestly if it's just plain monstrous, like 8-10 and girthy I'm backing out. I can't.
Can go beyond 7inches. I usually give a blowjob and ask to be gently fucked.
a girlfriend i dated for almost two years in college wouldn't regularly have sex with me because i was too big.
If more than 7 and it slams my cervix. Not a good feeling.
I don't think it's about the length. The penis can't go deeper than hitting the cervix, when girls are worried about the size, it's probably more about the girth.
so what would be too much girth? like the width of a monster energy can? Lol
@LrgMarine honestly I haven't really paid attention, and I haven't tried too big so I don't know
big dicks for big vulvas
Yes. Why would I injure myself so he can bust a nut in 1 minute? He can jack off in the shower and leave me and my little vagina alone lmaooooo
Well, I personally think a "thick" penis that is not too small, not too big is good
There is no length that makes me say no
OMG... What's there ;P
I've been turned away many times.
Women love it huge. The bigger the better.
I love pushing my limits so I don't think I'd say no. I haven't come across one that I've been like fuckkkk no to yet. Biggest I've been with was like 9, so I don't know that a couple inches more would make any difference 😂
Anything over 8.5in and I'd be hesitant
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