Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Long Distance Friends with Benefits ?!
Anonymous
OK, this girl calls me from the town I used to live in. She wants go date me, I tell her I'm not too good with long distance relationships. She said try it for a week so I did. Things went great but she got to see how lonely long distance relationships can be. So jokingly I suggested we be FWB, she said that was a great idea (when I did live in town we had great sex). I thought this was just crazy at first. But then again I do take trips into that town at least once a month. She said that when she gets a car she will stop by and see me when she can. We do more than have sex we also go to dinner and such, its just a no commitment relationship. Is this just the craziest thing you have ever heard of? I also can't help but think that she has a hidden agenda, she does like sex (sometimes more then anyone I've ever met). I don't really like her in a lets get married way, and I have told her that I want to be able to explore my other options and that she should too.
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What Girls & Guys Said
2 1No, it's not the craziest thing I've ever heard of.
Being human – and adult – doesn't come with rules. Go there, but be prepared for one of you (or both of you) to eventually move past where you are now.
Crucial rule: honesty. You make up the rules as you go along, but you've got to be honest about it. Honest will be the only glue that binds such a relationship or friendship together over the long term. It's the basis of mutual respect.
Well, I think that you have expanded the FWB category. It sounds like you two are dating,
as a couple. Nothing wrong with that, and you both are accepting of the long distance
consequences that can be presented in such. I say that if you both are having a good
time, go for it.
It doesn't crazy, then again, a lot of us get married, to get married, etc.
Good luck!
Dude! You sound like my ex boyfriend! LOL.We broke up cause he couldn't let of his FWB
But to me it seems that you guys could be dating, from everything you have explained.