Can you orgasm from a lapdance by a stripper at a strip club?

If you do orgasm from the stripper's lapdance and you're in a relationship, is it cheating?

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Clarification, by yes/no in the poll, I'm asking IF you can even orgasm from a lapdance.
 

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  • I can't, and I don't think a lot of guys could; but I'm sure most of them (including myself) would love to be able to.

    It's pretty hot if a girl can "make" me orgasm just from dancing on me.

    Now, as far as that being cheating?

    Common; enough with this cheating business.

    If we don't orgasm, it's not cheating.

    If we do orgasm, and an other woman isn't giving us a blowjob, handjob, having sex with us, or we're drugged (not drunk) or otherwise unconscious or unable to act (i.e. she ties us up in our sleep and jerks us off); then it's not cheating.

    The key element to cheating is "intent". If I want to have sex with an other woman, and I go ahead and do so; well then, what more of a definition for cheating do you want?

    Even if a guy were to actually get off from a lapdance that a stripper gave him, like on the off chance that would actually happen; it's not called cheating; it's called an awesome lapdance/stripper.

What Guys Said 9

  • Rarely; it's very hard. (Pun intended).

    LOL - no seriously, it's not common. She has to be grinding you like hell, and she has to be very, very good. No, I do not consider it cheating, (if all the clothes are on). And I do not go to the clubs where the clothes are not on... I have little girls, I need to be able to look them in the eyes in the morning, and their momma, too.

    Hope this helps.

    • See, now that depends on the scenario; if it was some guy she was folling around with, then yes, I would consider it cheating... but if she was at a bachelorette party, I would probably be okay with it.

      Personally, I've been ti strip clubs, but I've never let it go far enough to get off.

    • How is it not cheating if you orgasm from a women grinding on you? I guess I wonder - if your wife did the same for another guy (grinded on him till he or she finished) would you be OK with that?

  • I could if she did a good job and was actually grinding on my cockles, not just dancing sexy in front of me. I orgasm a lot faster from slow, intimate sex than I do from a hard screw session.

  • no

  • It'd take a hell of a lot of grinding.

  • A guy can orgasm if he's a pathetic14 year old virgin boy who is oversensitive and has likely never seen a woman in his life.

    Seriously man, who gets off from a simple dry hump with a lap dance? Who? If the guy can get off from lap dance then he probably has no staying power in bed either. Seriously! As to the question of if he's cheating. Only if he knew he'd get off right from the beginning. Which I doubt. I think you can forgive him if he gets off from something like that as I am sure it was an accident and is frankly already embarrassing enough as it fucking is. He's likely to feel like a loser already. Now if he keeps going for more lap dances after he already accidentally found out he'd come from it, then yes, at that point I think it's fair to say that not only is he pathetic, but he's also a cheater.

    There. How does that grab you. Do you think that sounds like a fair set of rules?

    • For the Yes/No poll, I'm only answering no to the initial question.

      Question: Can you orgasm from a lapdance by a stripper at a strip club?

      Answer: No.

      Why did I answer like that? because frankly if this question got put out there as a "featured poll" that's all they'll see.

      "Can you orgasm from a lapdance by a stripper at a strip club?"

      - Yes

      - No

      I'd advise the rest of you vote under those terms too to avoid confusion.

  • Nah .. would be almost impossible for me to come in that way... I would get aroused but not to the point of having an orgasm

  • Depends on how well the stripper does her job.

  • i don't orgasm from dry humping so I would assume that a strange stripper won't get me off

  • if the lap dance involved touching then I would say it is cheating. if he orgamsed from the show then it is like p*rn. But the question is .. does he go for these places regularly or was it just once that happened when his buddies pressured him?

    • It hasn't happened yet, but he'll have a bunch of bachelor parties to go to this year including his own. He's always been 'fast' so I wonder if he gets a lot of lapdances if he could orgasm from it - I guess I don't see how orgasming from a stripper directly grinding on his lap is different from orgasming from doing anything else with any other girl.

What Girls Said 1

  • As a female,I do not consider this cheating.I would rather the guy be honest with me,tell me he's going to a strip club,probably going to get a lap dance.Whether he c*ms or not,eh,I imagine it isn't possible for most males.

    In my definition,cheating would be kissing,licking/sucking,f*cking,fingering/handjob,oral sex(receive or give),or being too intimate.It also differs by person and by your partners boundaries.I would be OK with my guy getting a lapdance( I just wouldn't want it to be a regularl thing-strip club hopping)

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