My ex mocked me to his friend(s) and laughed at my pain after I sent a personal text. What is his problem?

[Anonymous]

BACK STORY: We were fwbs for 5 months. He wanted more but I wasn't ready. He asked many times and said "I love you" several times as well. He was my first, yet I still needed to build up feelings before I was sure enough to commit. I ended up falling in love albeit slowly, and when I was finally ready last month he told me, "I waited so long, I'm over it. I don't want to be with you anymore. I want to stay fwbs." That killed me. I cried for days. So, I was stupid and slept with someone else. I took "I don't want a girlfriend" seriously. My friends with benefits found out and I cried and begged for forgiveness even though I didn't cheat. We had sex that night and exchanged "I love you"s, so I assumed we'd move past it. Turns out, he used me for a last screw. I STILL apologized through texts even though he remained cold. I told him that his friendship is the most important thing to me and that I couldn't live without him in my life at all. UPDATE: I now have no desire to ever be with him. What he did last night was deeply ****ed up - I was hanging out with a few of his friends and one of my girlfriends, ready to go to a house party. The ex friends with benefits shows up, so we don't go. I found out from his close friend that my ex showed him a text from me saying "You just farewell ****ed me with no intentions of speaking to me again after I groveled for forgiveness?" and he was laughing about it and mocking me.. I would have done anything to be at least friends up until I found that out. Now, he doesn't mean anything to me. It was hurtful, but now I realize that there was never any love involved in that relationship for him to do something so low and heartless. My question is - does he even still care about me as a person? He said he'd still be my friend. Is he just hurt so he's acting spiteful out of pain? Or does he really hate me now? I know I broke his heart, but he wasn't innocent himself. Is he justified to be treating me this way?

[Anonymous]

He wanted a friends with benefits relationship for him, but not for you so he could see other girls and have sex with them but you couldnt. Then when he found out you had sex with someone else he acted out. Its a double standard. He sees you as his property, someone he can have sex with but its not OK for anyone else even if he is seeing other girls.

Maybe he likes you or maybe he faked the relationship to have sex. If he had an emotional bond with you he will be hurting...sounds immature...though

[bBop345]

Guys fake relationships to have sex? How can you tell it's a "fake relationship"?

[johnnydoe]

First of all, he is a piece of sh*t who deserved to be shot.

Never give yourself to these kind of people.

Theres too many bad things happening to good people.

You didn't break his heart. In fact, he doesn't have one.

No reason is justifiable to what he has done to you.

This guy is a jackass. Because that was plain cruel.

A true man protects and never cheats his love.

[m3TALchick]

Never ever talk to him again. You were right about not just jumping into a relationship with him. You should never be in a relationship with someone unless you know for sure how you feel. Odds are he probably did care at one point, but he was to impatient to care about your feelings. If he really did love you he would of waited. You did not break his heart.

[iJokeTeeth]

He probably sees you as a bit pathetic, perhaps it's because he may be one of those people that move on extremely quickly and he can't understand why you haven't

[Anonymous]

You Slept With Another Man "As A Revenge" So What? Although Your Ex Is A Disgusting Fraudster (Mostly Heartless) He Would Never Get Along With It, Even You're Just friends with benefits But No Man Could Get Over That So Don't Request Forgiveness, He Will Destroy U Slowly U Burnt Him Inside, Never Use Sex For Revenge