Start off with fingers. If you don't really know how to do this, go to a tube site and look at female masturbation. Even in commercial pr0n, women mostly do what they like, but amateur is more accurate. Use plenty of lube/lotion. She will be dry when you start and abrasion at the beginning will spoil the event. When she starts bucking, she is aroused.
Then switch over to oral. Flat-tongue at the cl*t and l@bia and 2 fingers down below. As she gets wet, change motions a lot up/down side/side all around. When you find the sweet motion, she may grab your head which, translated into English is: "Do exactly THAT and speed the h*ll up NOW!"
If you are short of time, 15 aggressive minutes will get her there.
I think my average now is about 13-15 minutes for my girl. That's nothing too uncommon. Oral sex takes a while. I've been with girls who got off easily and could do it in 8 or 9. Been with a girl who had these crazy body shaking orgasms but it took 30 minutes easily.
moral of the story: there is no nornal. Let her enjoy herself and come as she, um, comes. She'll tell you what she wants, and if she doesnt, encourage her to be more vocal. If you're doing it right and it takes that long, then be happy that you're doing it right and that's just how long it takes. And she should be happy you're so dedicated to her pleasure.
30 minutes sounds about right. I'm usually quick to come when I masturbate, but when I try to come any other way than what I'm used to it will take much, much longer. The clitoris can be fussy, it has very specific ways it needs to be touched/licked, and there's often the problem of it going numb for a while because it's so sensitive. Be patient and keep at it. Also remind her that you love it (that will help her feel more comfortable, which will help her body ease up and come sooner). Also be sure to do it regularly so that she gets more comfortable with it.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!shouldn't take as long as 30 minutes...although sometimes when I was enjoying myself I made it last for that long! you just need to find the rhythm/sensation that works for her. try relaxing and tensing your tongue, lick in different areas, you'll know when you hit the groove that works for her, then just don't stop til she cums!
My last girlfriend took between 7 and 13 minutes to come with oral (combined with rubbing her clit). Ya, after a couple months of dating her I used to get really bored doing it so I would watch the clock and see how long it took. Thank god it wasn't 30 min though. But keep on truckin', it'll take less time for your girl to finish once you figure out what patterns/intensity/rythms she likes. But don't forget to enjoy it as much as possible too! And make damn sure she returns the favor.
never. I've never orgasmed by oral or fingering
I was very surprised I did so when I did
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