What should I say to him?

my boyfriend is absolutely amazing in bed and I always have an orgasm before he does but because he lasts really long I stay really turned on, and usually he finishes before I have another one. he's usually really tired after he cums and I know this is normal but sometimes he's not and just wants to cuddle which is nice, but sometimes I really just need him to make me orgasm again. occasionally I ask him to but he always assumes I just want to have sex again, which we'd have to wait a little while for until he was horny again. but usually I just want oral instead of a second round of sex. he's definitely not selfish in the bedroom but it seems like he kind of is after he has his own orgasm, which is something I have a problem with cause I'd never leave him hanging after I orgasmed even if I was really tired or just didn't feel like it. what should I say to him when I'm in that position where I really want him to go down on me again or whatever?
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  • I think you should have him go down on you before you have sex and see to it that he eats you out as much as you want until you've orgasmed a couple times. 2 sessions. then you can start having sex and he should be so turned on that he cums faster than usual and maybe you'll find yourself orgasming at the same time as he does. I don't think many guys like to go down on their girl after they've just had sex with her. well especially if it's no condom sex. But if it is, then hmmm it seems like he would if that's what you want. It seems like he'd just love bringing you to another orgasm orally because a lot of guys can't get enough of that. Right, there's no need for you to be having sex again and going after it. It can be soo relaxing and enjoyable for you to just lay back and let him pleasure you until you have another really intense orgasm. Tell him this is what you want and how much you'll love him if he starts pleasuring you like this whenever you ask for it. OMG it's usually the guys that ask their girls. It's like mann I just want my tongue in that pussy so bad. lol, Get working on him so that you can have the full sexual experiences you want with him so that you are left completely satisfied. Once started, you won't have to keep asking him. He'll be right there already.

    • Yeah I would never ask for oral after no condom sex haha but if we are having unprotected sex I will usually give him head to finish so that it's less of a risk. but yeah I would understand if he wouldn't go down on me after he did come in me cause that would be gross haha I don't think most guys would really want to taste that. but yeah he learns quickly so I'll definitely talk to him about it like you suggested. thanks!

    • Thats what I said, and this girl on this said I was so wrong.. lol john-bee posted a poll, you should read it...

    • She said you were so wrong about what haha

  • sometimes for a guy. most of the time after the first orgasm. the sexual drive went from skyhigh to below the dirt,

    i say sometimes cause there are some of us out there that can come and keep going.

    when me and my last girl would have sex, sometimes our orgasm timing would be off, so, if I got off first, I made sure I still got her off, good for you that you can come and come again.

    if I was you, tell him that your second orgasm drives you so much over the edge that you need to feel it.

    he has to learn how to come again too, so his sex drive lasts longer. sometimes if I come hard the first time, I may lose my drive, but I will still go down or do what ever to get her off.

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  • Tell him that if does it, that random moments in the house will become more interesting in the future. If I need to break that down, send me a message.

    • Yeah I think I know what you're getting at haha

  • well I have to say not many guys are exactly interested in going down on a girl who he just had sex with.for obvious reasons, I could suggest getting a toy they have nes that can keep him from orgasming longer.

    • Well sometimes he has no problem with it we do use condoms so that's not the problem I think it's more that he thinks the only way to get me off again is for him to get the energy back to have sex again which isn't always what I want

  • Talk about it & tell him that you usually want to go for one more. Tell him what you want. If this doesn't work then when he finishes tell him to go down on you again.

    You know that most of the time us guys aren't too smart. We have to be told or run over by a Mack truck for us to get the idea.

  • try having him give oral or use toys after he cums.