When my girlfriend gives me a handjob I can't seem to cum?

Is there anything I can do to help her out? she feels bad that she can make me come and I don't want her to feel bad. anything I can do while she's giving me a handjob to help myself cum?

 

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  • Theres a couple things. Because we don't have a penis (obviously, lol), we don't know what feels good. I thought slow and smooth would be hotter, but most guys want fast and furious. I wouldn't have known that if a guy wouldn't have shown me.

    Tell her where you're good spots are, and if she does a stroke or something you REALLY like, tell her! Then she'll known what type of strokes you like.

    You can have her watch you, although I'm not a fan of that.

    My guy had never come from a handjob before either, but I was pretty determined. :) After a few minutes of nothing, I told him to stand up at the edge of the bed and I kneeled on the bed so his penis was at face level. When I gave him a handjob from that position, he came in like minutes. He said that it was super hot to see me in front of him and focusing so intently on his penis.

    If there's some fantasy or some part on her body you love (like her chest), make sure you're in a position where you can see or touch them too. Trust me, when my guy has his hands on me...I'm giving him 110% with my hands! :D

What Girls Said 2

  • I touch boys in the c-ck zone a lot when we're on a date so that when we kiss goodnight he is very stiff and ready for a hand job. When I give the hand job I put oil on my hand and I sit or stand so that he can see and touch my bra, skirt and knickers. I would guess that your girlfriend could help you to climax by using baby oil on her hands -- carry some yourself, it's cheap! -- and by teasing you with her skirt, bra and panties as she strokes you. She can also vary her grip, holding you in different places, sometimes lightly, sometimes firmly. Little pauses help too. Why do you want to climax quickly?

  • You can teach her how to do it... If you just put your hand over hers and show her how to do it, that can help. She's probably interested in finding out anyway. Also, you get used to your own hands, so maybe don't masturbate the day or two before you see her, so that you're extra horny. If she wants you to gently touch her breasts, that can be a turn on for both of you. If she's not turned on, she's less likely to do a good job.

What Guys Said 3

  • There are just a couple tips I can think of that I really like when my wife gives me handjobs. First, she should be topless. Getting a handjob goes from good to awesome when you can look at and feel the girls t*ts. Secomd, use lube. Using a good quality lube during a handjob feels amazing. Even watching her apply it is hot. Third, have her use her t*ts. Its hot if she rubs it across them or between them. You can also try having her squeeze them together while you thrust back and forth in her cleavage. It feels really good, trust me. Last, use dirty talk. Encourage her to talk dirty while she's doing it. Things like about how big and hard it is, etc. Are good. And when you get close to finishing, its nice if she tells you how bad she wants it, or where she wants you to shoot it.

  • For me, my girl has to be into it. If I feel like she's just giving me a handjob to get out of sex and isn't into then I'll never cum. She has to keep going, can't stop to move around or reposition frequently cause it slows down progress. Now if she's really working it, getting into it, kissing, touching, foreplay, etc then yeah it won't take long.

    You have to find what works for you and make her do it.

  • Gve her all your concentration on what she z doing,try and feel like what she's doing z too good or maybe hj with d aid of cream wil help out

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