He came really really fast?

I have known this guy for about 15 years. He and I had a friends with benefits relationship many years ago, but lost touch. Recently, he found me on facebook and we have been sexting for about 4 weeks now. Today, I met up with him on his lunch hour for a quick prelude to what we are talking about doing next weekend when he is in town and has more time. I LOVE giving him head, so I went down on him. He came really super fast (like within 5-6 minutes). I know he was nervous because we were in my car in the broad daylight, so I would have thought that would slow him down some. He didn't moan, but he did say "daddys gonna cum" before he came in my mouth. He said it had been a while since he had been given a bj. Is it bad that he came so quickly? Did I do something wrong? I didn't stop sucking fast enough and sucked on the sensitive tip after he came, but when he said "easy" I backed right off (wasn't sucking hard, but he is really sensitive). Could that be an issue? Very confused...never had a man come that fast before.
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  • Relax and feel proud. You gave him a BJ that felt really really good to him. It was only bad if YOU wanted to enjoy it longer but he obviously did. When oral sex is done well it can bring quick results. Four or five minutes of good stimulation is all it takes. The longer you play (like forplay) the less sensitve his penis may become and that can slow things down. Him being sensitve afterward is normal, it doesn't hurt but it feels really weird. Just handle him lightly for a couple of minutes.

    • Thanks for letting me know that. He didn't act like I had hurt him, but he was extremely sensitive so I felt bad about it. A good bj shouldn't hurt at all...lol

    • He's a lucky man !

    • Thanks...lol

  • 1. He's not had sex in a loooooong time

    2. The first time with a new lover is always huge turn on ... a danger to heart patients who are warned "only sex with your mate" - you were his new lover

    3. You did better than ever ... and are learning more even now

    4. Weekend sex should be more about you, once you dispense with his immediate needs in short BJ fashion.

    • LOL...thanks for that! I can guarantee, this was a freebie, but I'm gonna get mine. If I don't, it's gonna be a long time until his next bj for sure ;)

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  • ..5-6 minutes is considered normal.

  • Dayum... either you do real good werk, or he was nervous as hell, being in public...

    • My guess is that is was a combination of both...although, prefer to think I do excellent work...lol

    • apparently you do... dayum... werkin that tongue jes rite, huh... LOL

    • That's the goal..lol :)

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  • That's not fast.

    • It really seemed fast to me. I usually would have used my hands to stroke him and maybe play with his asshole a little. I barely had time to lick his balls a little, tongue his d***, and suck a little and he shot right off in my mouth. I'm not complaining at all. I was just wondering if he actually had a chance to enjoy it...lol

  • maybe it was just a really good one

  • That just means that you give AMAZING bjs and that guy is very lucky!

    • That's what I was really really hoping it was...lol. Thanks! :)