Would you go on a vacation with your friend with benefits?

[993099142]

I don't even know if we are friend with benefits as he has made no attempt at all to officially state what we are or what we are doing. We are two people who kiss and make out on a regular basis, with no phone calls, online conversations or fancy dates with him actively pursuing other more attractive females while he's with me so what do you call that? I want to go on a vacation with him thanksgiving weekend or christmas holidays. We see each other naked, and shower together, but he refuses to have sex with me. I thought I could lose my virginity to him during a 3-7 day vacation in a fancy hotel but it' hard to find affordable housing. I know vacation packages where the hotel stay is about $15.00 a night. but then we'd be driving 90% of the time from one destination to another. What do you think? and I live in the Toronto area.

[Gaby-chan]

I think you should have a conversation about what you are looking for in your current relationship. I understand that the status of your relationship is not official (whenever it is friends with benefits or something similar).

It is your choice to decide to go with him on a trip with him, but ask yourself some questions (or ask him): what do you think of him? what do you think of the relationship you currently have: what you like/ dislike/ want/ is missing, etc? why do you think he doesn't want to go further (why does he refuses to have sex), are confortable giving your first time with him? are you ready to lose your virginity with that guy who you know is looking at other women?

[passionforprince]

What? I honestly wouldn't waste the money. I don't think it takes a wonderful vacation to make a man have sex with a woman. That is a distorted way to do it. He doesn't call, he is pursing other women and he is not having sex with you so you don't even really have a friendship. I think its best to downgrade the relationship and try to be friends or just be nothing at all. If you are a virgin I suggest you find a man who at least makes an effort to show he cares. Trust me it will be a much better memory. losing your virginity with this loser is a waste. treat your virginity as something special just don't give it to anyone

[chinni]

do what ever you wish to

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