Did he cum?

I recently had sex with my man for the first time. He has told me he likes to try to get sex at least once a day and that he normally lasts like 20 minutes the first time then like 45 right back to back with out stopping. We were at it with me on top for almost a half hour and I don't think he came. Like 5 minutes into it I thought he was going to but unless he is good at hiding an orgasm which I don't know any guy who can he didn't cum. It was really wet and sloppy sex and it wasn't even close to all being from me. Did he come and just hide it or was it a ton of pre come and why wouldn't he have cum? He said it was really amazingly good (his x has 2 kids now so big big difference as I have no kids).

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  • I guess he'd be the one that would know for sure if he came or not. Just ask him and he should tell you. I mean you guys should know each other good enough to ask intimate questions if you're into sex already. If he said he didn't come why are you worried? He said he enjoyed it so just leave it at that. If you plan on continuing to have sex with him I hope you guys start communicating with each other on what's going on. Also, I like how he told you that he expects to have sex at least once a day like it was gonna be some obligation of yours now. Also, it sounds to me like he's not very high strung if it takes him that long to cum. By any chance did you tell him how long it takes you to orgasm? Personally, I think he's gonna wear you out, and have you had any romance in your relationship?

    • We do talk and have a very open relationship about everything I guess that is just one of my personal insecurities. I want to know that I can please him and I'll feel bad if I didn't. We didn't really talk much after the matter because we were in the living room hoping to avoid getting caught by his family then his son was asleep in his room. As for him saying he trys to get laid every day and how long it takes him is because I asked what he was use to with his x :D

    • Okay, thanks for the additional information. I think it'd be a good idea from now on to make this relationship just yours and his and leave stuff he did with his ex out of it. Really try to not make this just a sexual relationship, because even if you weren't the greatest at satisfying him sexually, should that be the main concern? Try to make this a 50/50 deal, that we both want equal satisfactions.

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  • If you went to bed and didn't get up after and then in the mornight there was water coming out of you then he cumed. If you got up right after you would see it being thinker

    • We finished after switching positions a few times got up and went right to the shower

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    • It was really wet and messy sex that doesn't always mean that he came, I mean we soaked the sofa an were both soaked requiring the shower

    • Then just ask him do it after the next time you have sex and say last time did you cum>? when he asked why just say you don't rember

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