my boyfriend and I have begun using the withdrawal method because neither of us like condoms. I've just started taking the pill so it hasn't kicked in completely yet. my question is are guys usually able to pull out completely before they come or does a little bit of come usually get inside as well?
k condoms it is till the pill kicks in! thank you all very much! :)
I hate to tell you this, but it's more than likely that some pre-cum or even a squirt seeps out.
When my wife and I were young, we used to "fool around" like this - and I used to tell her "not to worry about it", because I could "control it". well, 2 months after we were married, she had my first beautiful girl Chloe Claire. long story short, don't bet on this - unless you are SURE it would be okay to get pregnant.
I WAY prefer pulling out to cumming inside her. Back in college I had to use the withdrawal method because sometimes that was all we had. (college is for learning experiences, right?) But then I found I was really good at it. I'm 43 now and never got anybody pregnant. (I got a vasectomy at 35 but still pull out 99% of the time just because it feels better and it's easier to clean it off of her stomach/chest/neck than having it ooze out of her all night long) But it all depends on the individual. Some guys freeze up at the point of orgasm. Some guys ejaculate prematurely. But I always pull out completely just as the orgasm begins and it's usually at least 5 seconds after I pull out before the spurting starts.
that is called the kamikaze pull out. it is only 70% or less effective. There is the pre come & a little bit always comes out during sex or any type of foreplay. Wrap it up or wait. it only takes one little swimmer. Why risk it?
I've never taken the time to notice it but I read that the pregasm can sometimes release alittle come and intruth while having sex it can happen without any knowledge. honestly though use the condom while your not completely protected though. or try oral sex. but the danger or pregasm release or loss of control, sometimes orgasm can come before one can withdraw or accidently get it right on the tip. try asking the web there's a sight called cool nurse.com that might have some tips
ME and my ex used to do this.. well, so she thought.. I was always like.. ill pull out before I cum, but in reality it felt so good to come inside her I could never pull out until the orgasm was almost over LOL, still, she wasn't to know
There is going to be a time when pulling out not going to happen, it may not be intentional but its going to happen. One gets caught up in the passion and then pops without withdrawal. Try oral or other things to satisfy yourselves if you dislike condoms that much.
i'm glad you're getting condoms. pulling out doesn't work. hell, my friend got pregnant even when she was on the PILL. if the baby wants to come, it'll arrive. be careful. you've been mighty lucky all this time, haha
they've all said it, Pre Cum, it lubricates the penis and often has semen in it. I wouldn't be taking that chance if I were you. there are other alternatives to condoms explore all your options. Do not use the withdrawal method.