Is there such thing as too wet?

[Anonymous]

Guys have you ever experienced this? Girls what works for you? Any Ideas would be great! My man is uncut and therefore cums fairly fast the first time. We don't use a condom and he cums in me. We always go 2 or more rounds at a time (the second and so on is always much longer), he doesn't have to take time to get hard again just keep going. He said something to me a few days ago I wasn't sure how to take. He said things get too wet and don't feel as good maybe he should start pulling out. I told him before I like when he cums in me because it gets me off an I've had experiences with guys that like to keep going for a long time and things some times get dry and uncomfortable. With him cuming in me there's no way for that to happen and it feels so much better for me. Is there middle ground here, have any of you guys ever experienced too wet not being as good? I've been told by guys that really wet felt so much better?

[the-carrier]

I think there's such a thing as too wet, yeah. When it starts to get messy and uncomfortable (as opposed to messy but very comfortable) I guess you don't really feel like you're doing the deed anymore, you get distracted by how wet everything is and it starts to feel unpleasant. As you say, too dry is no good either. Maybe some lube would help for the subsequent rounds? I know it gets you off when he cums inside you, but you have to consider him too. And if you're only concern is the dryness, there are ways around that. The best thing to do though would be to talk to him, maybe sometimes he pulls out sometimes he doesn't? At any rate you need to clarify what he means, and ask him if he has any other ideas if you don't like that one.

[LishaJones]

This is a toughy.I would say in certain situations being to wet would be an issue. To some men if its to wet they do not get the feel of it. There is a middle ground, you could not let him come inside of you. Then on the second round let him. That way you are getting off the second time and its feels good for him both times. If dryness becomes an issue then use a lite lubricate.

[katiesmuff]

I totally agree with you and my boyfriend would also agree. The sloppier it is the better he likes it.

You are very lucky that your guy stays hard, my boyfriend will get somewhat soft after cumming in me, but doesn't pull out until I tell him I want to give him some head to get him up again and it only takes a minute so everything in me stays good and wet.

[DrHouseButALawyer]

If you get too too wet, and there is no friction whatsoever, it can kind of start to feel not so good. There is a fine balance betwene being wet and being soaking. When guys jack off, we don't use enough lube to where our hands slide on our penis without any friction. A little friction is good. If you get way too wet, then just keep a towel handy and dry yourself off, just a little bit. I had a girlfriend once with a similar problem. It was never a big deal.

[l-hedoniste]

First: unless you want a kid, I hope you're handling birth control somehow.

For me, wetter is better, but everyone has their own taste.

No idea what to do about the wetness, except perhaps to wait a while for penetration.

[xbeautifulx]

You could tell him to pull out and when you start to go again get some lube or you could just try cleaning it up. I've never had that problem I thought guys like it to.?