Can guys hold their orgasm?

my guy seems to be able to "hold" his orgasm for a long time. he seems to be able to control when he has one and is able to hold off until I've had several orgasms. I feel bad though because I am able to come really fast and have several orgasms, can guys hold their orgasms or does he just take along time to cum? and do guys think a girl that gets off easily is slutty?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • There's a lot of variety among guys in this area. And each individual guy can have a variety of experiences as well. Personally I've had times when I was cumming in seconds and other times when it took an hour. Typical for me is probably 10-20 minutes of thrusting and I can sort of slow things down or speed things up depending on how my partner and I are feeling. Sounds like your guy does the same: has the control to more or less come when he wants to. Women can have multiple orgasms and men typically can't, so to me it sounds nice that your guy if waiting for you to have a few before he has his. As long as you are both enjoying it, there's no problem at all. And no, there's no reason I can think of that a guy would think a girl that gets off easily is slutty. It's WONDERFUL making a girl cum.

  • Absolutely! A man trained in the arts of tantric love can hold off their ejaculations indefinitely. They can also have multiple orgasms. Let's be clear that orgasm and ejaculation are two different things. We typically collapse them in Western culture, but they are different.

    To me an orgasm is very satisfying as much so as an ejaculation, which does involve orgasm too.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Sister consider your self lucky. As long as you both are having a god time your situation is awsome! a man that make you come so many times. Man are visual but they also love to hear a woman moan with pleasure, so I think your guy feels great every time he makes you cum.

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  • Guys usually hold off on orgasm because they don't want to dissapoint the woman. It's a shame really, that men are more concerned with performance than their own orgasmic potential. And.um.girls that get off easily does not, in any way, shape, or form prove a proper slut.

  • You're not slutty; your man sounds like a good lover who is concerned about pleasing you. His payoff is worth it, so don't feel bad at all.

    I know I can 'hold off' orgasm by changing positions or taking shorter thrusts. I think it's a function of how long the thrusts are, if that makes sense.

  • if i can control the speed at which we are going, pretty much forever xD never tried past 2 hours though.

  • When I was younger I would struggle with holding back. Now that I am older I can hold it a long long time with no problem. I don’t think a girl that orgasms fast is slutty at all just more sensitive maybe.

  • he shouldnt mind as long as you help then again he mite be scared

  • yea some can but if you get off easy your not a slut you just really like that one particular guy

  • It's generally not easy or common for any male to be able to hold off an orgasm, or have multiple ones.