Asking a friends with benefits to be monogamous is fine. However expecting a FBW to be monogamous particularly after the other person said no is obviously not fine. They are just a friend, that you sleep with. Nothing more when or if both parties agree for it to be more.
Your friends with benefits said they did not want more. That meant it was up to you whether to accept the terms of the relationship or leave.
Therefore it is not their fault but yours for expecting more than they agreed to or wanted0 0 0 0you guys were never FWB, you were more than that the whole time even if he didn't realize it.
you have the right to be hurt, but I'm sorry to say, its your fault for trying to be with a guy who clearly told you he wasn't interested in a relationship.
so it was a bad idea to be with him cause you both wanted different things.1 1 0 0
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Well, even though there aren't any string attached he had no right to do that. He led you on and hurt in the worst possible way. You have every right to be angry or regret what you did. It definitely wasn't too much to ask for. You deserved a little fun ;) But next time, I think you should think twice before having relations with friend, okay?
1 0 0 1if there were 'no strings attached' what did he owe her?
Nothing, but if you read the first paragraph he told her that he had feelings for her "we both realized that we might have feelings for each other" Soooo he shouldn't have said that because now look what he did He led her on and hurt her
Aside from your story, which is you living with a guy who just wants to be fwb. fwb, is no strings, asking for anything is strings. you can ask for it monogamy- but it is not fwb. Why do you think he'd stop sleeping around if he's doing t in the first place?
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0 1I thought the whole idea of FWB was no strings attached.
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