I'm in a very similar situation. I had friends with benefits and unintentionally pushed for relationship and I didn't realize it. We both developed some feelings but since she wasn't ready or interested in a relationship, she backed off and denied any feelings but I know they were there. We're currently on a break because of me being too pushy. She said she isn't ending it, but needs time away from me. It's definitely a difficult situation.. by the way, my sex with her is amazing as well. We have amazing physical chemistry. I miss that the most.
0 0 0 0I'm the exact same boat... amazing to me how a man and a woman can have some amazing sex, be so compatible in bed and yet the woman doesn't fully connect and the man does.. makes me feel like a freak... I don't get it! I'm just going to break some of the rules and continue to be her friend, act A LOT less clingy and pray she gets horny again and we get it on!
I don't think you can handle a sexual friendship, mannn.
1 0 0 0Pre-emptive: 'Why do you say that?' Because, you kept pushing for a relationship through ought it, and now want the sex so much that you couldn't have just the friendship. You lost sight of the boundaries from the start, and now you've lost sight of the real meaning of the friendship - which is friendship. Which is, in as few words as possible... A rookie mistake, right? Or, someone who gets very easily romantically involved, and then mistakes his lust for real desire
She acted like my girlfriend for the first 3 months. I "went off on her", so to speak, because of habitual flakiness and then we just reverted back to the original FWB; However, she would still chat my ear off all the time in regards to her problems (that drove me nuts). I can't "just be her friend" because that would entail having to listen to her problems...and not get anything worthwhile in return.
My god, your an asshole
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as much as you said that you don't want the realtionship now... I don't think you will be able to hook up with her and not having feelings.. you went down that road, before and there are big chances you will go again.. as much as the sex is good (Amazing!) with her.. is not healthy for you to try to have it again because you're going to end up hurt, and completely, end up the friendship... it wil be worst. than is now...I actually think you have developed feelings for her already!
0 0 0 0These past 2 weeks made me realize that we wouldn't work as a couple. She's a constant flake, ranges from happy happy joy joy to crazy depressed for no reason (and I have to listen and try to calm her down, etc.) I want to play with her though (and have turned down hooking up with other girls since even though we weren't together I'm a one-girl-at-a-time kinda guy...)
for people who knw what they want & are not lying to themseves ts fine.
guys get hurt women get hurt. but these are people who go in wanting more & get upset when they don't get what they want, they get what they agreed to. if you have the emotional intelligence of a 6 year old, you should nt be in a fwb.
However, if you are going to lie about a fwb, you should not be in a relationship either.0 0 0 0do you want a relationship or friends with benefits?
0 0 0 0I thought I wanted a relationship before but after being deprived of her sex for 2 weeks I think I'll be good with just the physical. lol
u know in the relationship you can have sex?
I know, but I realized that we wouldn't work as a couple.
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1 0LOL, why would you want a FWB back? It ain't a relationship you know.
0 0 0 0Having sex with her was amazing...I could do without the relationship part if we can keep hooking up.
it's better to find a girl who is also amazing in bed, trust me the sex will be the best and the relationship will last. This girl you are FWB will just end up getting pregnant, and you two won't be in f*cking for long because she will probs find a partner.
We always use protection. What you said at the end makes sense (about her, eventually, finding another partner) but I just want to keep having fun with her until that happens. (I have turned down hooking up with other girls just because I was fiending for her sex...lol, she's good and is literally the prettiest girl I have ever been with)
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