Friends with Benefits - would you consider signing this contract with an attractive male friend of yours?

I. Terms of Agreement a. This agreement is defined as a physical and emotional arrangement to engage freely in uncommitted casual sex from time to time between the aforementioned parties who know each other, care about each other, and can trust each other. The intent of this agreement is to relieve sexual frustrations through an alternative to masturbation, and is not intended as a prelude to a romantic relationship in any way. Both parties agree to remain free to date and/or engage in casual sex with other parties during the duration of this agreement pursuant to Article IV. II. Acceptable Bedroom Activities (heretofore: “benefits”) a. The activities that will be deemed acceptable under this arrangement will be discussed openly between the aforementioned parties upon commencement of this agreement. The acceptable activities may not necessarily be limited to those that are initially set forth but will always require that both parties are in agreement before said new activity is added. III. Acceptable Outside the Bedroom Activities a. Upon entering into this agreement, neither party is obligated or expected to increase the frequency or duration of their outside activities with each other. Pressure by either party to do so may constitute a breach of this agreement (see Article V). IV. Regarding Third Parties a. Both parties will be permitted, encouraged, and never frowned upon for dating and/or engaging in casual sex with a party other than the aforementioned parties during the duration of this agreement. b. If either of the aforementioned parties invokes their Third Party right, the invoking party will be honest and forthcoming with the other party as to the nature and identity of said third party. c. Upon one of the aforementioned parties invoking their Third Party right, both parties will open a dialogue and determine whether or not to continue honoring this agreement pursuant to Article VI. V. Breach of Agreement a. If either of the aforementioned parties fails to comply with any or all of the Articles set forth in this agreement, a dialogue will be opened and an appropriate punishment will be determined and agreed on that could result in but is not limited to the Termination of this agreement pursuant to Article VI. VI. Termination of Agreement a. Either of the aforementioned parties has the right to terminate this agreement for any reason they deem worthy. Prior to the termination of this agreement, a dialogue will be opened and the reasons for termination will be discussed freely, openly, and honestly. b. Once a termination dialogue has been completed, the aforementioned parties will end their friendship with benefits arrangement and revert back to the friendship arrangement they had prior to entering into this agreement. c. The aforementioned parties reserve the right to enter back into this agreement at any time provided that both parties are in agreement to the same conditions set forth in this and all other Articles contained within.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Hell to the Hell No! This is capital S2upid. Here are the reasons why.

    First the FWB is not addressed at all in this contract. I don't see any benefits, you gotta have benefits. Second and most importantly, deciding to screw other people is a personal decision and it's not encouraged. The benefit should be risk free sex with one consistent person that satisifies you. Date other people but don't 'do' them.

    That's just too risky in 2008. I just came back from my HIV test because it was right in front of a shop and only took 20 minutes to get results. I was negative, but the guy administering the test was positive. He told me the story of how he trusted a person with whom he thought he had an understanding. He got HIV because one person wasn't careful with him one time. Think about this before you think about the FWB or a cheating boyfriend. Also on Tyra today (don't ask but her shows are pretty informative) Teens are having unprotected sex at an alarming rate and are contracting STD's at a more alarming rate. Casual sex with several partners is a risk and people need to become more responsible for their lives as well as that of their partners.

    A few hours ago, I would have laughed this off or chuckled through the unenforceable contract. I hope people think about what they get themselves into.

  • If I was looking for that type of relationship I would. But I'm happily engaged and Don't need it. I have to commend you on the creativity and brashness of it though.

  • Didn't they try that on a Seinfeld episode?

    • Awesome! Finally someone gets the humor behind this. The contract was actually more detailed but the character length prevented me from posting the whole thing.

Most Helpful Guys

  • are you serious?

    this is just another

    reason for the kids

    under 18 in this

    site, and anyone

    who reads it

    to go around

    having sex.

    sex wasnt created

    so people can have

    a friend with benefits.

    it was created as a

    way to show

    love to your partner

    that you marry, and

    chose to spend the

    rest of your life with

  • doesn't sound unconditional to me.

    This is someone who isn't really ok with the arrangement, I would pass.

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  • This made me giggle. Also reminded me of Seinfeld.

  • NO WAY, unless all you want is a friends with benefits! Even so, WHO writes up a contract about it?

    • I see a lot of posts from people wanting to do this but not wanting to ruin their friendships so I thought I'd provide a little something as a parachute so to speak. A little piece of mind if you will.

    • I have also heard of people wanting the friends with benefits, but I think once you are involved sexually, feelings begin to develop and it seems more likely than not, the woman is the one that will be hurt in the end.

  • FWB are always a bad idea. One person always ends up catching feelings.

  • WTF , okay so we understand some people are looking just for sex .I don't like or even believe in such a thing .

  • OMG ! ! WTF ! ! Dood ! ! FWB is supposed to be fun.

  • I wouldn't like to be anyone slut , i would like to sex with my partner who can understand me physically or mentally.