Is it still considered a blowjob if the guy doesn't cum?

Question

Okay so whenever I blow this guy he always cums...today he didn't. I don't know why...but anyways. Is it still a blowjob?

ManFromHat · Accepted Answer

Yes. But...

You need to love giving your man head. That is step number one my dear ladies – there is nothing more important when giving head than truly being in love with doing it. He has to see that you’re not doing it to give him something – to give him pleasure, but you’re doing it because YOU are getting amazing pleasure from having your lips around his penis.

What I’m talking about is something that most women seem to completely forget, or even if they here it – they’re still searching for some special technique. Yes, there are special and good techniques that can help you perfect your bj skills – but it’s NOT about that.

It’s a mental thing, you need to get your mind straight, and you need to get his straight too – because if he’s in his head, thinking about other stuff – then he’ll be unable to relax and truly enjoy the experience with you – which will results in a much less satisfying orgasm – and that’s not what you’re looking for, right?

My suggestion is that you focus on changing the way you think about oral sex – once you do, all doors are open for you. Men from all over the world will love you because they’ll sense the vibe you’ve got from having a different attitude towards sex and oral sex in general. Girls that give great head are automatically more attractive than girls that don’t give head at all and think it’s grouse. Check out Jack's Blowjob Lessons for more detailed tips.

KarKingJack · Accepted Answer

Its a blowjob, yeah. I mean, even before the 'its not your fault'/'Not finished' etc. etc. stuff, which may be valid points, like... Its still a blowjob. I mean, you can drive a car and crash it, you still drove a the car, right?

saphirasilverwings · Accepted Answer

There are lots of things that could have prevented him from getting off this time. Don't feel that you did anything wrong. I would say yes, it is still a blow job, just like sex is still sex whether or not either person reaches orgasm. Plus, lots of times, people do oral sex for a little while and then move on to something else. I think that's still a blow job too.

Whysoconfused · Accepted Answer

Of course it's still a blow job. You had your mouth on his penis and sucked it right? Just because a guy or girl doesn't come during sex doesn't mean they're not f***ing, right? Yes, you still gave him a blow job... a terrible one.

joraz · Answer

I say "NO".  Not finished.  If he was going down on YOU and you didn't cum...has he done his job? Get back down on your knees and get busy girl.

vampireelf · Answer

I never came with a blowjob. I never wanted to shoot into their mouth. Sometimes I didn't even come at all at that night. But still, it is a blowjob yes! :) Its not related to cumming at the end.