If it's with multiple women as you've said then it's probably your technique. It takes 3 minutes at the absolute most for my girlfriend to come from oral.
If you've got a girlfriend or friends with benefits that you can do it on regularly get her to be vocal about what she likes and how near she is to coming.
With my girlfriend I get into a rhythm and stick with that and she usually comes in less than two minutes. But if I break that rhythm for whatever reason, like if I had to cough or I just get out of sync or whatever, then its a major setback and it's almost like going back to the starting line. It's just a matter of working out what gets your current girl off. I guess with more experience with more women you'll work out what techniques are more commonly liked so it'll be easier to work it out with your next woman. Maybe ask another question for girls to describe the techniques that makes them come the hardest or fastest, and get guys to explain what they've found that works.
Get her worked up first. It typically takes a woman like 20 minutes to get warmed up for sex. But if you work her up for a few hours that foreplay time might be mere seconds. Yes, seconds if done right.
Find out her sweet spots. She might have them in an unusual spot like the back of her knee, or wrist to more common areas like the neck, her lips, and nipples. Also if she is into books she might like you to describe a scenario to her.
I think you should try a different technique but yes its harder for women to come then for men, there are many theories for that. One of them is that back in stone age we werent monogamous so if she would sleep with many men, her climaxing would give the one preference who 'gives it best to her'
I'm sure there are many others out but I don't know any
it's not harder for women to come, some just do not feel liberated enough to feel like they can explore their physiology to learn how to do it effectively. men come less intensely, maybe more often than women, but we have at least a 2 hour build up to our sexual peak, we can force orgasm & can have mulitples, sometimes without being touched, that may have something to do with that stone age theory, the longer you go the more you come.
I'm not expert but I don't think that's accurate
Unsure what you're calling inaccurate: the fact that some women come without being touched, or that it takes hours to reach our sexual peak or that the more sexual you are over longer periods you come more. yet you believe it's harder for women to come, why don't you give it a try. it doesn't take an expert to try these things, it just takes an open mind.
the female orgasm isn't about how hard you rub, it's about where, pace and your technique. get your woman to masturbate for you to show you how it's done. if my man just rubbed me like a machine I'd slap his stupid face and tell him to get the f*** out of my bed.
Its not just that there's also penetration with the fingers, kissing involved, and sensual rubbing. I mean I'm not just rubbing...
ok then I was just going to blame your technique but it's not always the same thing that make you come. You can come from both clit & vag, the key is to know where to apply pressure & you cannot possibly know that unless she shows you. try using your thumb to finger with and cup your hand to stimulate her pelvis using upward grinding strokes. whatever you do, she has to guide you too, it can take me between 5-35 min to orgasm sometimes, dep on a number of factors but we're all different ;O)
because we're different from you guys. different things get us off
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I would have to say that you need more foreplay and take it slow. never start quickly with the clitoris. go real slow and tease and when her breathing is heavier and quicker then you can speed things up a bit while being as gentle as you could be.
u have to do more than rub her!
The outside of the vagina is sensitive, not just the clitoris. I think the girl is not relaxed enough tbh.
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