Should we accept incest?

We are living in a time where gays & interracial dating is accepted when that would have been crazy talk 100 years ago! In the end, does incest hurt anyone? It doesn't, so do we have the right to judge? Marrying cousins has been pretty much acceptable for a while (& even the royals practiced that), so what about people who want to take it further? Technology is progressing so having close DNA that messes up breeding may not even be an issue soon. Gay people can't have children at all & their sexuality is not within the norm, but it's acceptable as no one gets hurt like other out of the norm sexualities. My stance on incest - I happen to think it's disgusting & would NEVER practice it! It's the stuff nightmares are made from! But it's an interesting topic & I'm wondering how others feel, especially in the light of how sexuality is changing & things that were considered crazy 100 years ago are the norm now, & you seem like the crazy one/jerk if you have a problem with gays/interracial couples.
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I'd like to say obviously I see nothing wrong with interracial dating. I'm exotic & have been with white men. Anyway, I'm just saying you have something like homosexuality which is not what nature intended being accepted, so what about incest? Things can already be done to weed out defective fetuses & ensure optimal birth. Do we have the right to judge if the incest couple is responsbile about this? Just saying it's "nasty" is about as good an argument for why gays shouldn't couple.
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It seems some people can't read. Of course interracial dating is natural! Incest is nothing like that! But I'm saying it was frowned upon & now accepted, so should incest be accepted too? We can relate incest & homosexuality however for arguments sake because a lot of the same rules apply: against nature in regards to breeding (science), people think it's gross (opinion), but in the end their consenting adults not really harming others (accept the kids they adopt, breed).
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  • First let's split incest into two very separate groups.

    Consensual adult incest, and abusive incest.

    Abusive incest, be it an adult and a child, or two adults but one is domineering over the other, I (and I imagine all people) would NEVER find acceptable under any circumstances, period.

    Consensual adult incest is another matter. Most of us would be repulsed at the idea and wouldn't want it, but what are the specific reasons, logically, for disallowing it for people that are in that circumstance.

    1: Religion.

    Has no place in secular laws.

    2: Personal disgust

    Is no more of a good reason to be against incest then it is to be against homosexuals or inter-racial relationships. Personal disgust is not a valid reason, even if wildly shared.

    3: Threat to children / offspring.

    There's two problems with this.

    a: What if they are infertile, or if it's a gay/lesbian relationship? Does this mean that hetrosexual incest is not allowed, but homosexual incest is ok?

    b: Besides which, why don't we have laws for other DNA related issues. For instance, smoking and being over 40 when having children are both risky to the health of the child, but we don't have laws against either of those.

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    Whilst I'm like most of you, and the idea of incest is repulsive on an emotional level, when looked at with objectivity it's hard to find a specific reason to rule against it (in terms of consensual adult incest). With that in mind, I tend to think it SHOULD NOT be against the law, and instead have genetic counseling offered any couples that practice it (which I imagine is very limited).

    • Damn! This should have been best answer!

    • Thanks! Incest is one of those things where the emotional response we have to it seems to be the main reason we shun it. Still not for me though, my cousins are ugly! =D

    • Excellent answer, exactly what I was trying to say, except this was better laid out in a logical manner.

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  • Your comparing apples and oranges here. Homosexuality and interracial coupling are social constructs. Just like Chihuahuas and Rottweilers have the same DNA and can produce healthy offspring, a black man and a white woman have the same DNA and can produce healthy offspring. The only reason it was ever frowned upon was because PEOPLE THOUGHT it was in poor taste. Homosexuals can't reproduce, but there are other species of animals that routinely exhibit homosexual behavior, which means that it's not against nature, it's about pleasure and stimulation rather than reproduction. Perfectly natural, but PEOPLE THOUGHT it was wrong.

    Incest though is completely different. There is hard scientific evidence that incest leads to birth defects, mutations, and other horrible things. People think incest is bad because of this evidence, not because of religion or social mores.

    Incest=science. Gay/Interracial=personal opinion.

    How can you not distinguish between those concepts?

    • Wow. Incest appears in other species too, & so does necrophilia. Necrophila is purely a pleasure thing, & in the end is there a victim? But necrophila & incest would be frowned upon because it's against nature & viewed as nasty. The same thing applies to gays. Gays don't hurt anyone but that doesn't change the fact it's against nature - it's not personal opinion bit science. Also, children of gay couples are grately hurt psychologically.

    • There is hard scientific evidence that gay sex is unhealthy. How does that fit into your "scientific" viewpoint?

    • @moaterboat- I just don't see your point. Many, many, many pleasurable activities are unhealthy in some way or another (drugs/alcohol/tobacco, eating delicious but unhealthy foods, etc.) so does that mean that they're all inherently unnatural? I'm sorry, I just don't see what you're trying to say. It's worth noting that heterosexual sex is not without it's own health risks, though, so is it really any different from what you somewhat dubiously claim. No offense, source link?

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  • Incest developed relationship are right is my opinion, however, Every boy and girl goes through they're sexual exploration stage in life. Girls get horny really young and figure out all the ways we can masterbate. Most girls right away think boy parts are gross but deep inside we all are very curious. Girls can come up with some pretty dirty things at such a young age you wouldn't realize it.

    Boys are a little later horny bloomers around 10-14 and girls can start at age mostly around 5-10,
    Boys some FEW as young as 2 or 3 for the odd boy. and i am witness to that.

    Nobody should look down on experimentation between siblings or cousins etc. Humans are sexual beings and its bread into us that we learn at an increasing rate at a young age. Our vaginas and penis's are told are NONO's so that increases our interest. Naturists or (nudism) is a life style that people choose for their families and they actually grow up not horny over wanting to see or touch a different private part. Nudist family colonys are an amazing experience to bring your family into from birth. (before their mind smothered in our sexual culture). so my point is experimentation is natural and fun and exciting when you are young. When your at that age all you have in your life is your siblings or cousins and you trust them. If it evolves into a life relationship and intercourse or children then the boundries maybe crossed. So that is my opinion like it or leave it. ill reply to my post to share my experiance

    MY story is

    • (cont') I started touching myself when I was around 4 and it started because my mom made me lotion my vagina after a bath and I realized how good it felt. I had no idea about penis's and I remembered always wondering why my dad pee'd standing. My mom was away with grandma on a shopping trip because she was pregnant with my soon to be brother. my dad bathed me and while I was in my parents tub he was in his room changing and walking around naked. I watched him walk right by the tub and pee in front of me. He told me now I know why we stand when we pee becuase he doest need to sit, boys are lucky we have penis's. He let me look and it was the first penis i've ever seen. I got out of the tub and got my nighty on and jumped on his bed beside him and lotioned my vagina like mom makes me do every day (only i was only with her) I didn't think I was doing anything abnormal. I remember him telling me that I could use things to make that feel real ticklish, and thats how I started...

    • (cont' 2) I started using toothbrushs and hair brushes and then it just snow balled from there as I got a few years older. when my brother was born i would look at his little weirner when we changed him and then when I was 7 my cousin and I played house all the time. One day we were pretending it was night time and we went to sleep (pretend wife husband, and my little brother who was now 3 or 4 was our kid) my cousin pretended to go to the bathroom before coming in bed with me. He actually pulled his pants down in the corner pretending to pee and i could see him. I started asking him questions like how far it can go and does he need to wipe. We watched eachother actually pee and that led to us touching and playing around. I remember it wasn't about pleasure we just liked the look of each others parts and the feel of them. that went on for a few years then we stopped and i think we were like 13 when we started talking about sex with each other and we decided to show each other again...

    • (cont' 3) DONT worry we never had sex or anything but we did masterbate in front of each other and he showed me cum for the first time. we looked at videos and pictures on the internet together aswell. This only lasted not even a year, we just grew out of it. Explored more sexually with boys from school. And now most girls will say that they dont care about boys dicks or they are gross but really, We all always try to see whoevers. Even just to see the outline in some shorts or swim shorts. Now im 15 and am starting to realize my little brother is spying on me in the shower or in my room and I've caught him so many times in the morning walking to our bathroom and he has his penis up out the top of his pajama pants. One morning i hid behind the bathroom door and he walked in didn't see me until he looked in the mirror. But when he walked in he pulled his pants right down and his hands were full of cum. He was so embarresed. I asked him if he jerks off every morning

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  • Practicing homosexuality has been part of human history for centuries. The Greeks and Romans are notorious for those practices so really it's not a new accepted thing, it's finally being re-accepted. Religion drove homosexual practice "in the closet" ( :) ) and now we are bringing it back out.

    I don't know what fantasy world some of these people are living in but inbreeding does increase disease rates. And we are no where close to preventing that with scientific advancement because of the ethical constraints of modifying human DNA in a lab.

    There is a reason most people feel the desire to vomit at the thought of being sexual with a close relative. Over evolutionary time, individuals of multiple species (not just humans) who where driven to mate outside their family or clan had an increased fitness because their offspring were more likely to survive. Incest goes against nature.

    • You have to keep in mine even with all the PC stuff left out, homosexuality is against nature too. Also, there's already hosts of tests that are done routinely to detect birth defects suck as downs etc, in case the parents want to abort the fetus. They also already do things for people that are much older to ensure optimal birth.

    • Stupid iPhone. I meant SUCH as.. & keep in MIND.

    • Yes I am aware of the that but there are millions of genetic diseases, genetic disease that are so rare that there is no reason to test or even identify the genes. You start mixing family lines and those rare diseases a going to start cropping up. I don't follow internet slang so I have no idea what PC means. Homosexuality is, in evolutionary terms, against nature for mating purposes. They are not burdening their offspring or the public by their actions though.

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  • Ha, I agree with you 100% on this one. I've discussed this topic a few times and yeah, the only real argument that can be made is when it's non consentual or the risk of making retarded children. But with what you've said, I'd say we're well on our way, but it won't happen as soon, or as quickly as homosexuality and interracial coupling did, only because this is far more universally considered as "wrong".

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  • Accepted in society? Society has barely begun accepting homosexuality which is a sexual orientation

    I think it's disgusting and this country is losing morals...but pardon me for having a not so liberal opinion

    • You think homosexuality is disgusting? D:

    • Where did I ever say that? I was talking about incest and even if I did(which I don't) it would be my opinion

    • Oh, sorry, lol. It's just the way you talked about homosexuality, and then immediately after started that other sentence. :B

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  • As long it's between consenting adults, it's not my business what they does. First of all, just because you're a couple doesn't mean you always gets children. Either it's a heterosexual couple who decides to not getting children and use protection or they are infertile or they are homosexual and therefor can't produce children. Another reason the law against incest is flawed is that the family members aren't necessary in biological family. Incest between step-family, adoptive-family and foster-family are also illegal in many countries which doesn't make sense, because they aren't in biological family and therefor the children won't be defected.

    If incest became legal, we would still have a law against pedophile and rape. But the government wouldn't mind consenting adult's business too much. So I sees no problem legalizing incest. But I won't be against a law that says biological incestuous couple shouldn't make biological children and stick to non-biological ones.

  • There's a huge difference between homosexuality and interracial relationships and incest. For starters if tow people of different races have a child it won't come out deformed or mentally challenged. You can explain having two mom's or two dad's but how are you going to explain to a child that that their uncle is also their father? Incest will never, and should never, be acceptable. And let's face it, it's only amusing when it's on jerry springer

    • How is it easier to explain two moms or two dads but harder to explain mommy and daddy are also cousins or brother/sister? Your logic just doesn't hold.

    • "You have two mom's because some people girls are attracted to boys and others are attracted to girls. Mommy happens to be attracted to girls." That's how you explain having two mom's...sorry if that's over your head. Seeing as how people in homosexual relationships explain that to kids all the time clearly it's not that hard

    • And like I said "mommy and daddy are also brother and sister" See, they are equally easy. Sorry if that is over your head.

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  • I think its fine actually. If two people love each other I'm not going to get in their way. Its their life not mine. If they want kids they can adopt. its no biggie.

  • No! That's crazy talk.

  • The reason why we aren't accepting incest is because genetics has proven that if we breed with family members it will result in defects. Mental problems, deformities, etc. I don't feel that incest will ever be accepted.

    • This is a common misconception, the rate of birth defects only changes slightly with incest. If society wants to ban something in order to decrease birth defects, it would have a greater impact if they simply banned people with genetic defects from having kids. Not that I advocate that, but if your argument is based around birth defects then you have to look at ALL causes of birth defects.

    • I'm not saying that this is the main cause of birth defects. One would need a medical degree and possible scientist to determine causes. Medical problems during birth, drug use of the mother, radiation exposure, genetic mutation, recessive genes, etc. I'm just stating that if two siblings happened to produce offspring one increases the chances of birth defects. The further the distance of relation, the less likely defects will occur.

    • I agree completely with your last comment, and I think that if we are banning incest based on the increased chance of birth defects, then we need to ban EVERYTHING that increases the chances of birth defects by the same amount or more. Otherwise we are not really being motivated by birth defects, but by our need to impose our morals on others, which most people would agree is wrong.

  • I agree completely, and I think the people who support homosexuality, while condemning incest and polygamy are a bunch of hypocrites.

    • you don't know much about genetics do you

    • More than you do. I'm a f***ing science wiz, but that is beside the point. The chance of some sort of genetic problem does increase slightly with first cousins and even more so with siblings and other close incestuous couples. But if your argument is that this is the reason that incest is bad, then EVERYTHING that increases chances of birth defects is bad, for example, women over the age of 40 having children. Should that be banned too? Just admit that you want to control other peoples lives.

    • Funny about the "women over 40" thing because I just wrote the exact same thing above. Another is known hereditary diseases in a family, should those people be outlawed from having children?

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  • Wow! What a good point!

    We know the royal family got everything right! How could I forget ole Henry the 8th? :]

    Oh, and who doesn't like the increased chance for birth defects?!

    Yayyy incest.

    • Yay incest indeed :)

  • To be honest, I'd rather not even think about it.

    Until you can show me that upwards of 10% of the population (like the gay community) is somehow being oppressed because they're unable to f*** their siblings... I don't want to know.

    Let's burn that f***ing disgusting bridge when we come to it, okay? Until then, let's just leave our very healthy attitudes towards it in place.

    If you want to decriminalise it to avoid prosecuting those unfortunates who fell victim to GSA, I can sort of see that. But accept it? No, I just can't. It's legal in France, for example. And some other places. But it still isn't *accepted* there.

    • So how big does a minority have to be for you to accept it?

    • Bigger than Nambla. Smaller than the LBGT community.

    • I'm going to assume that the down arrow is from one of my many haters, and not from someone with a severe love of incest who just ignored all the other anti-incest answers below me...

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  • That the royals did it doesn't prove it isn't bad (I mean, look at them). We banned it for a reason as mixing genepools is is good for humanity. And we accept homosexuality because we are a tolerant society. That has nothing to do with genes.

    • So what about the people that say that homosexuality is bad for humanity? They use the exact same argument you do. What makes you right and them wrong?

    • The fact that homosexuality has nothing to do with genes. to try to say that is plainly wrong. It's like saying shovels and Christmas trees have influence on the gene pool. Using the exact same argument doesn't make it anymore valid.

    • So what about incestuous couples where one person is sterile? Is that okay? Or are you just trying to cover up your bigotry with scientific explanations?

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  • Morals aside, I'm sorry but I think this is a dumb question, homosexuals can't reproduce with each other while those who practice incest can, so that alone makes the 2 groups incomparable, so you say so what they can have kids, what's the problem with that? the problem is is a high frequency of these kids have either physical or mental abnormalities, so that solves that mystery.

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  • I guess. If you could guarantee they wouldn't produce any offspring.

    I can't relate to the idea of incest, though.

  • Scientifically, a lot of still borns, and mental disabilities occur from incest. On that alone is why I think it is wrong.

    Morally, I think it is wrong too. I will come back to explain why, when I have the my thoughts more sorted out.

  • No, it's disgusting. Plus their child would have lot of health problem.
    What's next really? Accept pedophilia?

    • Romantic and sexually interactions with two consenting adults aren't the same as pedophilia where something happens between a person who isn't mature enough to consent. Most adults are mature enough, children aren't mature enough. As long the incestuous couple doesn't make children, it won't be a problem. It's possible to allow people to have a sexual relationship without legalize them making biological children. Some couples are even gays, so they can't reproduce. By the way, what's disgusting or not is taste. I finds green hair disgusting, but I won't make hair dye illegal.

    • @curiousnorway You compare green hair to incest? Anyway in my country incest isn't illegal but I find it disgusting. Plus generally it's not doing by 2 consensual adult.

  • Marrying cousins has always been legal in most of the country.

  • Close DNA messing up breeding is my reason for no we shouldn't. When the day comes where it can be done without an issue then I'd be OK with it.

  • We should remove legal age for everything.

    • We should. Then, we should make child p*rnography legal Nd not a crime, then molestation should not be considered illegal

    • True, true.

    • @Evangelina are you being serious or sarcastic? Because I can't tell haha.

  • We don't have to accept it, just decriminalize it.
    After all there is no good reason for it to be criminalized in the first place.
    Bigotry, moral constructs and prejudice are still factors in lawmaking but that is how it is, at least for now.

  • Why not

  • porn, popularizes step incest. But, they would never touch REAL blood incest

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