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Why do girls like sex?

This may be a crazy question, but why do girls like sex? It's well known that girls rarely orgasm form straight sex (duh!) but they like it just the same. How is it possible that a girl can like (penetration) sex as much as a guy if she doesn't orgasm from it? And if the clilt is where her pleasure "really is", then why do girls even want penetration if the inside of their hole (just past a couple of inches) doesn't even have nerve endings? I can understand the argument that they have sex "just because it feels good", but having sex without orgasm is like chewing something delicious without swallowing. It's just not satisfying. I can understand why girls just wouldn't bother with the whole thing.
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A sex survey for More, a women's magazine in the UK, found women crave more sex but still believe men enjoy it more than they do.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • well of course sex feels good. and it's fun! I like feeling close to the guy I'm having sex with, having him deep inside of me, and doing things to please him, rather than just have him lick my clit til I come and that's it. (although, I do really like that alot, lol) also, when I'm turned on and in the mood, sometime it's just nice to get f***ed. or when I wanna take control I'll get on top and do stuff to make the guy feel good. plus it's a really big turn on to have the guy come inside me. basically.. sex is just fun and feel really great, so that's why I like it!

    • I wish I could have read your mind a long time ago! It would have given me a foundation of emotional hope and kept me from catching an itchy Mentally Transmitted Disease! Thank you for sharing your life with me 7 months ago and saving mine today. Its winning the lottery to know that girls want boys in their beds as badly as they need them in their hearts. It's a myth that girls don't like sex and I don't believe it any more. Your answer really connected and affected me. Thank you!!

  • First of all who said girls just like straight sex? Most of us want the foreplay and afterplay if possible which is when we are going to orgasm.

    In most cases we don't like the penetration as much as the guys do. It does make our guy happy and that is why we would like that part of sex.

    Tell you what young man, when you get old enough to have and want sex and if you are lucky enough to have a girlfriend, just tell her don't bother you will handle things on your own. I doubt it will upset her very much at all.

    • @aishuu10 Oh No I love a nice black ( in my case) dick deep inside my pussy!

    • @aishuu10 What I said is that "guys like penetration more than we do" not that we don't like it ourselves. It's we love the foreplay action and then stick it in us.

    • @aishuu10 I have no problem cumming from straight vaginal penetration, but it is lots more fun sensual and a harder orgasm with the foreplay.

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  • Umm. I think most of us are hoping for an orgasm in there. There's alway a potential for one right? Maybe not during intercourse but foreplay with manual/oral stimulation.

    But man - SEX JUST FEELS GOOD!

    Satisfaction or no satisfaction, I don't think we go into sex expecting to not be satisfied. We're more thinking something along the lines of "mmmm mmmmMMMMMMMMMM!- YES hot hot hot! - o god let me into those pants!" :-P

    And we like to give you guys pleasure too. It's hot to see your man squirm and moan!

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Most girls subconsciously want to improve the pair bond with long-term partners so that might explain the reason.

    My understanding is most girls do not glean any real enjoyment from straight sex. They want total body sex. Pay attention to all of her.

    Real life sex is difficult. You will mainly harm the relationship by imitating porn style sex with your girl and she'll probably be turned off.

    Read this excellent book by Michael Castleman.

    Great Sex: A Man's Guide to the Secret Principles of Total-Body Sex by Michael Castleman.

  • I have made one woman I was with come 3 times in about 1hr 30min once with foreplay and twice after that during (penetration) sex. So far except for the first girl I was with I have made every one of them come; if a guy takes the time he can satisfy the woman without any trouble if he can't then he needs to ask her what she likes done and enjoys.

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  • To me it's not about the sex act itself... I myself have never had an orgasm I've only slept with two guys but it's never happened with them or on my own. I do agree that it does feel good, but to me at least it's more of an emotional thing. To be that close to someone and share something that deep and leave yourself that vulnerable and know that you're safe with that person is a high in and of itself for me. It's more about the connection than the act.

  • Ummm.I've never had a problem having an orgasm during sex. It's not unusual for me to have a couple in not an unreasonable amount of time. And if a guy can't make that happen for me then he's just REALLY not doin it right.

  • Well I think that is not completely true. many women orgasm, I think more older women than young because we learn what works for us, yes there are a lot of women that need clitoral stimulation, but even if that is the case, the intensity of the orgasm is far better if there is penetration. You will find as you get older that more women have no problem with this, and maybe you need to learn what works for that individual woman.

  • Well if you men aren't doing your job right than we won't orgasm. It feels soo good the parts are made to fit each other its more than just the clit that needs to be stimulated. Also I used to think that I could never orgasm untill I learned to relax and now its a full time thing.

    • Just curious - how did you learn to relax?

    • Same here. Once I learned to relax my body and go with it, it happens A LOT more. My husband is actually surprised at how often and easily I can orgasm from sex. Especially since he's the only man I've ever been with. There are also "exercises" you can do to help.

    • I just stoped tryin to think about what he was thinking of me, my man is awsome and he's soo into me that I am at peace with that and it has allowed to to totally enjoy myself and be open. Its all about being okay with feeling that good it used to be hard for me to handle but now ..............lol

  • So the question is.

    do you enjoy the ride or do you enjoy getting to the destination?

    Do it right (talk, listen, trust) and both of you will get where your going in the most pleasurable process possible.

  • women have tons more nerve endings through out their genitals and also have many erogenous zones whereas men typically have just nerve endings in the head so sex is more pleasurable for a women than a man. Men just have more testosterone so were way more horny

    • Holy shit? for real? Hahaha

  • I don't ever have a problem having an orgasm during sex. I honestly see no point in having sex if I'm not gonna climax.

  • men do enjoy it more because some women hurt after having sex.

    • Lmfao. wtf???

  • Good question. I think part of it might be just being close to the guy, if she's in love with him. Also it's just. when making out with someone and being turned on by it, I just feel like I want them to be in me and I want to have sex because it's something which would be pleasureable for both of us (although for him more than me). Just a biological drive, maybe?

  • why do guys like sex for their own set of reasons? like some can't get hard. some come to fast. some it takes like forever. some get hard and then lose it before the job is finished. some guys have no clue how to please a girl, etc, etc. the biggest reason girls have problems from orgasming from straight sex can be traced straight to the guy having sex with her. they blame the girl for their own shortcomings. Okay, I've heard this from girls over & over.

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