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My girlfriend is not as open minded sexually as all my girlfriends in the past. I need advice?

OK my girlfriend refuses to give me head from any position besides me laying down, t*t f***, won't let me come of her t*ts or face, show any thing besides her boobs when sending me pics/over skype, strip tease/ shake her butt for me (which is one of my biggest turn ons), etc. But she is real into using dildos and vibrators in the bedroom which I do but for some reason with her it makes me feel uncomfortable. She prob asks me about once a week to go down on her while using a vibrator on her. Its prob because she's not willing to do what I want sexually that I feel uncomfortable. I love her and we have been going out for 6 months and this didn't really bother me in the beginning but this summer it has really been getting to me. We are in a long distance relationship until school starts again but I have seen her 4 times. I had a falling out with all my guy friends back home so I only really hang out with my four best girl friends all of which at one time or another I was friends with benefits with and they all were down for the things my girlfriend isn't down for. So when I do complain to them about how she won't do those things they make a bigger deal of it than I do lol. They respect the fact that I have a girlfriend when they are sober but when they drink they tell me how they wish they could do the things my girlfriend won't and bring up times in the past when we have had sex. One of them even went as far as to say she wants to have a 3 some with me and her girl friend. I've stayed loyal to her but I find myself fantasizing about my 4 best girlfriends more and more. I feel guilty about it. I will be away from them soon but I am worried that if my girlfriend doesn't start being more opened minded to what I want sexually its going to cause problems in our relationship. Any advice?
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  • Honestly, If you both can't compromise, as in, both reach a level of agreement to give each other what you want it's only going to get worse. In the long term it will get ugly and you should probably end things before it gets to that stage. If you really love each other then you could probably reach the compromise. Credit goes to you for not cheating on your girlfriend yet but seriously how long will that last if you keep being sexually unhappy?

    • Agreed..these things don't go away..sweeping them under the rug is only kicking the can down the road...

    • thank you for your advice

    • You're welcome :)

  • i think your girlfriend is quiet normal...

    but wht you can do is tell her that its bothering u... may be she will do more stuffs

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