Girls, how often do you have an orgasm during sex?

[Anonymous]

Girls, how often do you have an orgasm during sex? How often during masturbation? Did this change with age (I mean, more orgasms as you peak in your 30s?)

[Minxxe]

you're not asking much are u!

every time

every time at least twice, upto four times in one session (for him)

yes, although sometimes it can take longer for me to climax now they're more intense and I've learned to not force or fight them either. the more relaxed and horny I've become in my 30's the more I come, the longer I can f***. it's not just the orgasms it's the absolute craving for good hard sex imo, that has improved. the overall familiarity and acceptance of myself and my man that has no room for shyness - anything goes and that's fine with me because it's always great sex.

[Asker]

You bet, I'm not a very nosey parker :-) Thanks for all you said. Lucky you! What's the secret of getting off more than once? Do share if possible...

[Minxxe]

honestly I have no idea but recall masturbating around age 8 & I haven't looked back since. that's not to say I was sexually mature (in fact I despised sex & didn't understand men at all) it took many years to understand that I'd learned something special. For me, climaxing is easy so if I think I won't come during sex I'll masturbate while he's f***ing me or I'll ride him because I always come on top... I'm sexier, wiser & much more confident in my mid-30's than I was at 21! ;O)

[Asker]

Very interesting. I wonder why so many women seem to have hangups about masturbating themselves while having sex. (That is quite a turn on for the male too, including in my own case!) As a guy, I sometimes wait for my partner to 'finish' first, and then find myself suspended in mid-air. I don't have any hangups about seeking help, coverting it into a happy-ending (with her help) or just finishing the job myself. We have to use all means to get there :-)

[Anonymous]

I have never had an orgasm during sex yet, some guys have been close but it never gets quite there, and during masturbation it happens every time. There is a certain technique that I need that unfortunately no guy has been able to master yet. I've been starting to get closer the older I get, but I think that's just because I'm not so timid to tell the guy what I like.

[Asker]

I can understand what you're saying, because my partner used to be pretty un-orgasmic for many years. It drove us both to grief; though she was sport enough to argue that she "didn't need it". With age (after her 30s), things changed dramatically. So she gets an orgasm almost every time, or maybe 3 out of 5 times. Which is not a bad score compared to the past. Unfortunately she believes women come once only (in a single act). I think more would have been possible too...

[Asker]

Not just being timid... women also sexually peak in their 30s... so it's normal to have more climaxes with time. I guess that has been the experience I know.

[Anonymous]

during masturbation, i typically have 5 or more orgasms and they are not more than 5 minutes apart.