What is the difference between cumming and an orgasm, girls only?

[A_Guy]

This may sound really dumb, and honestly I feel that I should have known this by now, but I had an ex, the only ex that I have really been close with, as in fallen in love with, so I could trust everything she would tell me. So when we first started making love, she told me that she always came, but rarely orgasm, which confused me. So I asked her the difference and she really did not give me a good answer. Now this was almost 2 years ago. Now I have given many girls orbasms before, but maybe some of them were just her cumming, I cannot know for a fact anymore since they might be good at faking it. So girls, please tell me, is there really a difference between an orgasm and you cumming or was my ex just wrong and made that up?

[Anonymous]

If she thinks she's cumming but not orgasming, then she's actually never had an orgasm and doesn't know what the f*** she's talking about.

The two mean the same thing. But some women who've never had an orgasm, mistake the pleasure they get from sex as "cumming".

You are not dumb. Your ex was really dumb though.

[A_Guy]

well, she had orgasms before, a few from me, but she usually just "came." But I think you are right when you say what you say. Thing is, she "finished" with moaning and what you normally would think is an orgasm, but she said she just came, so maybe she mistook a weak orgasm as cumming. Who knows lol.

[cajoi]

There is no difference between "orgasm" and "coming". They are the same thing. I don't think your girl knew what she was talking about.

Unless she was referring to "coming" as in "female ejaculation" ?

[Aries11w]

Maybe she confused getting wet with cumming? A girl comes as a result of orgasm

[naturaldisaster]

uhhh...I don't think there is a difference, your ex is silly ;)

[A_Guy]

kinda what I think. MAYBE she confused cumming with a weaker orgasm

[naturaldisaster]

MAYBE

[sarahsmile8839]

To me it's the same.