Well, I'm currently married. We've had ups and downs, so I'm not being all rosey on the perspective.
I think I might try to make a go of being a couple. Through most of human history, married couples got lobbed together for reasons that had nothing to with love. I think if you make a real effort to treat each other well ... well we're designed to fall in love, so there's hope. You two clearly find each other hot enough, so hey, that's something.
If it happens, don't think 'oh he got trapped'. Life happens, and people make a choice. If he chose to try to marry you, I'd be very clear up front - you're not okay (assuming this is the case) with just declaring yourself married to raise the kid. If you're going to do it, you want him to work with you as best you can to really feel love and warmth. It doesn't mean he is deeply in love day 1, it means he is _open_ to love and open to working to build more and more closeness and intimacy.2 0 0 0
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Use a condom with the birth control so your chances are as low as possible?
It is so hard and I've never been in such an intimate situation with anyone (I only had sex once, so I can't even say I know what the emotions of a sexual relationship are)
With my lack of experience I would say I don't think I could keep the baby if I wasn't able to take care of it.
I also think that people should bring a child up in as stable an environment as possible. If this means adoption because the parents can't work it out or take care of the child, this may be the fairest and healthiest thing.0 0 0 0
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