I rejected a guy at first, but I miss him now?

A guy told me that he loves me, we got close, and later I kinda liked him back too. However, he was keep asking me to make out with him even though we werent dating. So I told him that I think physical things should be involved after we start going out... then he said his parents don't let him date anybody as college application due is too soon. The thing is that, I didn't really feel like making out with someone I wasn't in relationship with... even though I liked him, I just felt somehow guilty about it. its like Id love to kiss him, but at the same time I feel bad about kissing my "guy friend". So I basically rejected him telling him that I cannot continue this friends with benefits sorta relationship (well its a bit different as we kinda had feelings for each other) and now he never talks to me... even if I say hi, he simply says "whats up" and that's it. it is driving me crazy as we used to talk over 1 hour over the phone and now I'm too used to it so that I miss him so much. I don't know what to do... I want to tell him to just talk to me but it'd be quite awkward.. and even if I just ask him to restart the friends with benefits relationship, Id be very sad as I easily get jealous whenever he hangs around with other girls.. I don't know what to do..
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Most Helpful Guy

  • Just tell him straight up how you feel--if you were that close at some point, he would definitely be understanding. He probably thinks that he somehow screwed things up and doesn't want to face you about it. Guys (excluding players/lady's men) can be very self-conscious like that.

Most Helpful Girl

  • dont do what you dont want to! tell him whats on your mind and be proud of yourself! go check my story please

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