If I'm trying not to come I do about 60 strokes per minute but I'll think of something that turns me off or is boring lol. If I'm trying to come I do 40-60 strokes per minute and then when I actually come it's probably only 4-8 strokes a minute because when I come I push it in as far as I can and just kind of move it around inside her a little bit.
As they say different stokes for different folks is so true but your link is a good one lol A guy will go slower a times to keep from cumming he wants to stay inside you for as long as possible and if he keeps going the way your link shows for any length of time if will be over quicker then if he slows down but counting strokes per minute is impossible also if depend what you like try to answer your own question how many per min. do you like ? Also you can ask him to slow down or speed up he wants to know what your body wants but to venture a guess a quicky is 50 per minute but doinng this is exhausting that's why its a quicky slow him down and last 20 min say 20 per minute. but when your reaching the big o you do don't you? you want him to go faster