well I agree with what another poster said about the intensity and emotion in lesbian sex
women just turn me way on, that's pretty much the gist although the intensity and stuff play a huge part in how good any sex is. I love eating girls out. the p**** is like one of my favorite things on earth, I could eat it for hours. and having a girl who knows what girls like go down on me is amazing too. guys don't always focus on where it counts, girls do, at least most of the girls I've been with do. and girls are sexier. and yeah I do get a kick out of being in control. I can tease a girl, slap her ass, pull her hair, tie her up, etc. I'm not into doing that with guys.
being a lesbian is about no attraction to men. so unless you aren't being honest with yourself about men right now, I don't think having a lesbian orgasm will change anything. although if you are not steady on your feelings about men (meaning you were lesbian all along and just couldn't admit it or didn't realize it) then sex with a girl could be a game changer for you.
I don't think lesbian sex is inherently "better," but it probably helps to be with someone who's so in-tune with the female body (since they have one). They typically have a better knowledge of what feels good.
If a girl makes you orgasm, that doesn't mean you're a complete lesbian. If you're still attracted to guys and girls, you're still bi. Even if you have a better sexual experience with girls than guys.
Your gender is sometimes an enigma for me too. It sounds to be a little bit spongy, what you (plural) want and do.
Calm your tits you're still bisexual. You probably don't know it but clitoral stimulation is a way of life. Help that guy find your clit and you will be back in business. Lesbian sex is better if you're a lesbian and all you know is lesbian sex. I'm sure hetero sex is good too (I don't know actually) maybe it is the partners you have?
The fact to why you have never climaxed is probably because your not all that into hetrasexual relationships, so you need excitement to reach an orgasm, not just penertration alone, so next time you sleep with a guy, get him to do what you want him to do, otherwise he is no good to you, because a woman would stimulate your senses all over, where a guy often wants to get right to it and in and out quickly, but if you get the right guy, he will want to get to know you inside and out, and I am a firm believer that there is not anything better than a guy who is willing to take that journey with you, so try and find a guy who doesn't just want sex, he should want you more than sex, this way he will do everything he can to please you from the inside out, good luck,x
jsut because a girl can get you to orgasm doesn't mean you're a full blown lesbian.
it just means that she knows what she's doing...im pretty sure more orgasms are mental for girls...you base it on teh feeling you get, how you let your mind get into what your currently doing...
being a lesbian means you only like girls...so if you decide that only a girl can give you a orgasm and you say screw guys, then you're a lesbian...
but if you find yourself going back to the D, then you're bi...i guess it all comes down to if you want to have your own children and become pregnant and all that...only you can answer your quesiton about being straight, bi, or gay...
going back to the D ...lol
lol ;)
No, orgasm aren't mental, are physical, mainly based on clitoris. The reason two women have more orgasm is because they will stimulate the clitoris more, while a penis rubbing a vagina isn't stimulate the most sensitive part.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Just try. Its slower and there is more time exploring your body and figuring out how to reach an orgasm. It is not only focus on the physical aspect, but you can also admire and comment body parts that the other is proud off. Words are also very stimulating combined with touches.
There is clearly a reason why so many women try it. I think female sexuality is just more fluid, sensual, romantic, and nurturing. Women are about 3 times more likely to be LGBTQ, have same sex attractions, and have same sex relationships/sex.
Have you tried a vibrator yet?
Yes I have but nothing happens :(
Does anything work when you masturbate?
I'm having the same issue and really want to try something with a girl to see if I will get turned on. Have you tried watching any porn?
Clit.licking and tribadism, but all this you can make with a guy too.
More sensual and a woman knows how to please a woman.
Lol, the funny thing is that so far guys answered mostly.
Come on girls, answer your sister here :P
Sex without the worry of pregnancy...plus women know what pleases women...once you try it you may not want a man again!
Lesbians are women, so they know how to stimulate us.
Ill take any hot chick who wants me. I want a woman to turn me on personally. I feel inbisible to women. Soo devastating considering i love women. I have a man but i need a woman too. Hahahaha
I’m straight but have been wanting to try with a women. It’s just that women know what pleases us the best and what we like :)
there is a reason why tons of women try it.
Possibly as girls don't have dicks they have to be more experimental and therefore try out more things including your clit and stuff and most girls can't orgasm from vaginal stimulation alone so they need their clit to be touched. It depends on what they do though. Also some guys experiment too just not as much as lesbians.
i love lesbian sex, its just more intense in my experience, more sensual and comfortable, and if you're dating a girl it can be so much more emotional. its just better in general. even the kinky stuff.
although when I want to be dominated I like men, I like to be in control mostly with girls.
More foreplay I would think so
kissing, touching breasts, fingering and oral
or scissoring, where you basically rub your fur burgers together
I don't know how common strapons and toys are used(as I only watch p*rn) but it's a suggestion
yep you could orgasm
I don't know about better but being with soneone you're attracted and have a connection to would make it better
Lol, actually scissoring is pretty uncommon
not in my imagination
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