I'm bored with my friend with benefits?

[xLilinight]

So I have a friend with benefit who was a good friend of mine before. He would always help me when I had problems with my ex-boyfriend. And we used to fight a lot when we were friends. But now our friendship turned in to something more. We decided to have a 'friends with benefits' relationship. He already had 2 short-term relationships with 2 girlfriends and he also had a short fling with another friend of his, and I had broken up with the ex-boyfriend (that I mentioned earlier), so we wanted to have a bit of fun, with no commitment, just between us. So our relationships are not polygamous. But when we have sex, the more I get sexually frustrated and ask for more. I don't give him constant text messages about begging him for some sex. I give him just friendly text messages, once in a while. But sometimes he doesn't seem horny or in the mood. Basically, I'm getting slightly bored. I want more sex with him. How can I get him horny, or in the mood for some play time? I want him to want to get naughty with me. Thanks :)

[Anonymous]

That's the problem with FWB's you have no right to ask for more or less. You're doing it together because you can't get anyone else or until one or both of you gets someone else. My advice is dump him and find someone else if you want a proper relationship or you want any say in how things go. Sex is much more than just the physical, which is why after a time FWB's do not work.

[ketfoen]

Sounds like a disaster waiting to happen, but what do I know right. He might not be that horny because he already had some or he thinks that 3 times sex daily is a tad to much.

[yopyopyop]

Maybe he's not in love, or he ponders between you as friend and you as girl-friend.

(I don't believe in "friends with benefits".)

[archer86]

Replace him with a new sex-partner. I can travel!

[NothingGoldCanStay]

well if he is your age it is weird he is not horny. he probably has other chicks or is not that into sex.

[Cantremember]

He is splitting his attention in three. Maybe you should too ;)

[xLilinight]

Thanks for answering :) but what do you mean?

[Cantremember]

Maybe I misread. I thought you meant he is seeing two other people as well.

[20Questions]

My advice is tell him to cut out the other 'relationships' and get all his benefits from you, because you can't split sexual desire even in 2 ways

[jayrex]

Have you thought of using p*rn to entice him?

[Anonymous]

send him some pics and say I can't wait for you to do naughty things with me :P or ill be waiting, or something like that