Why would a guy not want me to swallow his cum?

[Anonymous]

This guy I am seeing and have sex on a regular basis does not want me to swallow his come. We have amazing chemistry, but he won't come in my mouth, why would that be?

[Anonymous]

lol weird. I've never had this problem before. Um, maybe he's over thinking it. If he cums on you, next time he does it, take a little on your index finger and suck it off seductively. See how he likes that, I'm not sure any guy would dislike it. If he doesn't react negatively, next time you give him head and he's about to cum, try to keep it in your mouth and maybe he won't move it. That what I would do.

[Asker]

I've done that as he was coming on my face and he said...close your mouth baby?

[Opinion Owner]

lol hmmm. Maybe it's something that just doesn't appeal to him. Every guy likes different things, you know. If you really want to swallow for him, I guess the only other option you have is to bring it up again? Maybe ask him is it nasty to him or does he just not prefer it. Does he eat you out? If so, does he do it until you cum?

[Asker]

I don't mind it that much, I just find it weird...Yes he eats me out until I have multiple orgasms.

[Opinion Owner]

lol yeahh maybe he just likes it better when your mouth is closed. Every guy is different.

[Kain6th]

Do you girls actually like swallowing a guys cum? Just curious. Is it just as enjoyable for you to swallow as it is for guys to watch you?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeahh if I really like the guyy, if I dontt.. they don't get head lol

[Metlahead]

Wow cumming on your face but not in your mouth? I find the face way more degrading. Everyone is different though. Ask him what's up. He might just think you wouldn't want to do it so he's taking initiative to let you know you don't have to do it. I couldn't imagine losing respect for a girl either way. I hope that isn't the issue here because that means he's got some issues.

[ElijahCynicism]

Maybe he thinks it's degrading? Or the idea disgusts him, or he's paranoid about giving you throat cancer, or something, ahaha. Any myriad of reasons. Why don't you ask him?

[Asker]

I did ask him and he said "I don't know why"

[ElijahCynicism]

Oh. Well, if he doesn't know, *I* don't know. It's probably not something he thinks about much? I don't know why someone wouldn't know that, I don't think he's being dishonest, though, ahaha. Maybe it's a really personal thing to him, with a huge elaborate story leading to his superstition

[Prilee1992]

WOW. I love it cause it shows dominance!
Maybe he feels bad for you ;(

[AlexCab]

Beats me. Ask him, maybe he just think it's gross and doesn't want you to do that.

[taster]

He probably views it as degrading and he doesn't want to pull you off the pedestal on which he has placed you...(:

[Asker]

That's sweet...I think

[275153]

It's because he doesn't want to taste his own cum when he's kissing you. Some guys have a thing about that.

[TaureanBull81]

Geezers I've never heard of a guy refusing to pullout and cum in a woman's mouth lol. Maybe he finds that degrading towards women!

[Kain6th]

Probably like th others say, he might find it degrading. But if both of us derive pleasure from it, it isn't really degrading anyone is it? I would enjoy doing that. Also I would swallow the girls come to and have it all over my face after going down on you, so it's not like this is a one sided thing.

[Anonymous]

Some guys think it's degrading or nasty lol

[Anonymous]

because it's degrading. I couldn't respect her after cumming in her mouth.

[Asker]

Really? so if you liked the girl you would not come in her mouth, but you could come on her?

[Opinion Owner]

i'd come on her boobies/ass/belly, but I wouldn't come in her mouth. I'd come in her mouth if I didn't like her/if I wanted to degrade her.

[been_waiting]

if you lose respect for a woman because of that, then you're the one with the issues. that doesn't even make sense.

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend just thinks its disgusting to do it or to watch me do it, he said I can he just can't watch or know about it lol

[Asker]

Thanks for your answer, that's interesting

[Kain6th]

Break up with him and go with me then. >;-)

[275153]

But if he won't watch it, why would you do it? To me, it's a nurturing act. One of acceptance. It's more of a turn on in a close relationship than a one night stand. And usually takes some time before she WANTS to do it FOR me, to bring us closer together. Most women I know won't taste cum if it wasn't such a turn on for their man. So, I find it puzzling to hear that you'd so it when he wasn't watching.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he doesn't want to put his lips where his come has been. So in order to be able to kiss you, he keeps his come off your lips and out of your mouth.

[Anonymous]

how I wish you lived near me :) lol

N E Ways, hmmmm maybe if you really want to eat

eat it. When he does it in your face next time. Just grab

ur finger and eat it off your face? see how he reacts to that?

or maybe have him do it in your hands and than eat it? IDK

ANother way maybe you can give him a BJ when you know

he is about to come and keep his Penis in your mouth until he does?

Just tell him you find this weird? un normal that he doesn't

do it in your mouth.

[Anonymous]

If you ask me, that's CRAZY, lol. Like if a girl won't swallow or at least take it in her mouth, that's an automatic deal-breaker. I'm just glad to hear there are girls out there who have a problem with that! :)

[Anonymous]

Maybe because he wants to kiss you afterward and doesn't want to kiss a mouth that he just came in. Or, he thinks it's degrading and doesn't find it appealing. But me on the other hand, would let you swallow all you wanted. All you can eat!

[Asker]

Thanks, I don't think its because he find it degrading...he is willing to come on my face

[Anonymous]

He knows that his come tastes awful and he doesn't want you to throw up all over him