I had sex with a guy for the first time in our relationship together the other day and both times he lasted no longer than 2 minutes. He did nt mention it and obviosly neither did I but I was wandering...
What are the chances it was his first time? he's not the type to talk about it but although he didn't seem nervous his hip action etc seemed to imply he disnt really know what he was doing. He's 19 and pretty popular.
How can I get him to tell me? Are some guys just like that?
And could he be doing it deliberately ie not trying at all to last longer?
That is pretty normal unfrotunately. I mean sex was never intended to last longer than enough to make sure that the seed would get in well enough for implantation. So many guys are forced to think about other things during sex to try to last long enough in bed. The best bet is to give him a blowjob a bit before you want to have sex. If he is giving he will make sure you get your pleasure too afterward. Win win.
Sounds like you were really good for him, maybe too good if such a thing is possible. How fast did he recharge and be back at it? That should have gone longer. He is a guy. cumming is what we do. I recommend more sex and report back. Did he offer any alternative pleasures for you? ahhh. maybe a question for another post. have fun.
It could be that he's really turned on by you, or that he's been waiting to do it for a while or even just the way he was feeling that day. One time isn't enough to judge or understand what's usual for him just see what happens the next time. What's the point in asking him, in fact what difference does it make at all whether it's his first time if you like him?