Girls: How long do your blow jobs last?

I'm curious because sometimes it takes me a little longer to cum. And sometimes when I think it is taking too long, I get self conscious. And when I get self conscious it gets harder for me to cum. And if I tell my girl to stop before I cum, she thinks she is doing it wrong... So...how long does your usual BJ last? What is the average amount of time it takes your guy to blow his load?
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  • Like 10-15 minutes usually on a normal day, but if he's been drinking or is otherwise intoxicated, it can take much longer and I'll keep trying until my jaw can't take it anymore, upwards of 45 minutes or an hour. Sometimes he finishes in that time, others I'll 'give up' because my jaw needs to rest and we have sex instead, or he stops me to have sex instead because he knows the bj isn't going to work for him that time around. It just varies.

  • I personally enjoy giving oral.. so I will go as long as my jaw can stand it.

    My boyfriend rarely cums, though.

    He claims he has always been that way.

    I would not stress about not cuming with just oral, dear.

    I think that is pretty normal. (:

  • Varies really. Most of the time we're mixing oral with other stuff. If he's ready and just wants to come, then I can go at it and finish him in just a couple minutes. But we usually want it to last longer and do other things so we pace it.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I didn't like the bj I got once - couldn't make me come. She wanted to go deep, but I prefer shallow. I think circumcision was a very bad idea because it damaged nerves affecting my sensitivity.

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  • 30 seconds

  • I'd say about 5-15 min is like...average, if there is even such a thing. I'd say longest was prob like 30 min and my mouth hurt so bad :o(

  • Usually about 15 - 20 minutes.

  • When he cums or as long as he wants it.

    Depends on how much teasing is involved.

  • about 5 minutes haha

  • like no more than 20 mins.

    • it sucks to get a long blow job and like half way through you realize it's probably not going to happen with sex to follow.

    • im a bit confused, what do you mean?

    • like if a girl is giving a guy a blow job and it just isn't working to get the job done. I've been in that situation plenty of times where I'm looking down at her and thinking, "oh look at her... she's so cute.. she's trying so hard to make me cum... but I know I'm not going too and I know her jaw is beginning to hurt... how do I break the news to her? maybe I'll just help her to her feet and poke her doggie style... OH SWEET IT WORKED! DOGGIE STYLE BABY!"

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  • this question has got me hard, lol

  • usually it only takes 4-5 minutes. but when he's drunk, it's taken upwards of an hour. it's a work out.