Depends on the guy, I'm sure. Personally, I've never been the type to fall asleep after cumming. Sure, I may need a few minutes to get going again, but I'm still pretty affectionate with my girlfriend in the meantime, even if it's just kissing or stroking her arm or back or whatever.
As for your boyfriend, there's nothing necessarily wrong with what he's doing. Some guys are just wired like that, but it doesn't mean he loses interest or love you any less.
I've only had twice and I'm fairly sure she came with me both times. after reading this if I finished before she did I would try fingering her or eating her out.
perhaps you can talk to him about it and see if he can do more 4play before sex or finger you after he's done.
He's not losing interest in you, he's losing interest in the activity. I know my guy gets really wiped out and tired after cumming and he'll either sleep or cuddle with me. As long as he's fully involved with you before hand, I would not be worried about his interest level with you. It's completely normal. Try expressing interest to him that you would like him to continue to pleasure you, communication is very important!
we learned about this is anatomy the other day...after guys ejaculate their heart rate slows, breathings slows and they become tired but when girls orgasm their heart rate increases, breathing speeds up and they kinda wake up...its just the way we are made guys can't help it...its not that he is losing interest or anything its that his body is worn out
I think like the other girls said, guys are chemically biologically programmed like that, most guys are just like year boyfriend, it dosnt mean he dosnt love you just that you have completely satisfied him. Give him 5 or 10 minutes then start playing with him and he might be receptive again :)
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!A lot of guys are like that. Some of this is chemical. I forget what it's called, but there is something released in their brains after sex that makes them sleepy.
Endorphins?
not losing interest. just wiped out and fuzzy. give us a little recharge time.
Depends if I love the girl. If I do its after sex cuddles, if not then its boxers on and sleep.
So you saying he doesn't love me :(
NO! he is not saying he doesn't love you, all guys are not the same...he is most likely just tired and wiped of energy
For some reason this comment put me to think :/ ...
I wouldn't call it losing interest...but there is a biological need to rest and relax...and we are definitely not as affectionate after cumming.
You need to explain to him that women take longer to please than guys do. Yes once a guy cums he's usually not horny anymore but that doesn't mean he can't use other parts of his body to continue to please you.
I & MY GIRLFRIEND WHEN WE HAVE SEX SHE CUM BEFORE I CUM WE DO NOT HAVE PROBLEM MOST OF THE TIME I MAKE HER CUM WITH MY TONGUE
empty balls are useless...thats why we do that.
Depends on the guy. I dont. Since I stay hard all the time, I kinda don't stop lol maybe he needs to hit the gym
Yes most guys lose interest for a short time..can be a couple of minutes or a half an hour--don't take it personal.
I am like this about some things. I think a lot of things are really taboo and all and then I do or see them, and after I come I am grossed out almost by what just happened? But in the moment it's incredibly hot. Maybe he's the same way about sex?
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