Why does my boyfriend always want to lick my butt?

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And should I let him do it? Cause it's super weird to want to lick my butt.

pnwzephyr · Accepted Answer

Regardless what other people think about what you and your partner do, the only thing that matters is how the two of you feel about it -- whatever that "it" is. Any activity that is shared and enjoyed between two consenting adults is completely okay no matter how it may be viewed outside your bedroom. There are activities far more obscure, edgy and provocative than analingus. The nerve endings surrounding the anus make it a pleasurable spot for stimulation -- if and only if you're receptive to it. If you view it as a location that serves only one purpose, that's all it will ever be. If you're open to letting him explore something he's interested in and you discover you like it, well that's a bonus for both of you. If you try it and don't like it, no harm done either. What I would suggest, though, is that you present something to him that you are interested in trying. It's a trust thing. He trusts you enough to share something so intimate, so you should try the same. Something that you may be interested in that's a little unconventional -- whatever you're curious about. And share it to create a dialog of trust. You'll be surprised by how communicating through trust and acceptance opens pathways that will only enhance your relationship. If you want to learn more about analingus, just Google it and learn more about it.

gotc147 · Accepted Answer

No, it is not super weird to want to lick butt, it is called a rimjob and there are plenty of people who enjoy giving and receiving them and very few will admit it.

I would suggest letting him, if you don't like it just tell him not to do it again and if you do like it, hey, you just found someone new you liked.

nessavanice · Accepted Answer

As for me, my husband has done it before. I don't do it to him because he doesn't want anything around his ass. I respect him. If he did want me to do it as his wife I would love to fullfill that for him. It does feel amazing. The best time to do it is in the shower after you have cleaned up. He will get down on his knees in the shower while I bend over. Then he just spreads my ass apart with his hands and licks. Its even better when he sticks his tongue in. Its mind blowing. You have to be comfortable to do this. Above all make sure your clean or who ever your doing it to is clean.

Linds · Accepted Answer

I've licked my boyfriends because he was experimenting with mine, so we decided, mutually, that we'd share the experience. It wasn't completely terrible, but I need some work on overcoming the idea what it actually is. It doesn't necessarily gross me out - I love this man - I'm having a hard time describing what my hesitation is. He enjoys licking mine and I have no problem letting him provided I am freshly showered. The feeling is enjoyable.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

He isn't a freak or anything strange. Girls are ultra senitive there. It will feel great for you and for him to want to do that for you means that he likes you a great deal. If you let him lick any other part of you down there you may as let him lick you there to... at least once, see if you like it lol

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I used to think it was weird too. But after months of persistence I let it happen & now think it's not weird at all. My boyfriend loves to lick my butt, I love receiving and don't think it's weird anymore. Honestly not that bad...

daveyjones · Answer

I would suggest people try it before knocking it. I do this to my girlfriend every time we have sex. Her favorite thing is receiving oral so she likes me stimulating both orifices. We've tried it with me kneeling behind her which works but she prefers climbing up to face sit me in bed now, or occasionally she'll lie back in bed. She'll tease herself by moving around but after a while I end up licking her out properly before she actually orgasms. It takes a while and we both enjoy it.

It's common sense to be hygienic. Usually it's in the evening if she's had a bath so it's not gross at all.

loopylisa7 · Answer

if I'm honest I like it, and I know my boyfriend loves the fact I let him do it! so its a win win situation!

23momof3 · Answer

I LOVED it being a girl I'm always clean so I don't think he minded it I didn't ask but it was really good. And I have dun it and I don't mind doing it as long as its after a shower lol and the guys like it to

Distant · Answer

The male interest in anal is on the rise. Where is was typically very rare for a heterosexual male to enjoy anal, it's becoming quite common and something that girls will have to get used to. (Or used to denying). It really depends on what you're comfortable with though since you're calling it "super weird", I'll assume that you're not. Just keep denying it to him, in that case. Keep in mind that you run the risk of him asking forever or finding it elsewhere.

self1 · Answer

I think its extremely grosss. LIke just the thought makes me want to vomit. LOL

Curiouschicagoguy28 · Answer

I have licked girls behinds over 100 times and it is amazing every single time I do it. It never grosses me out. Cleanliness is important but girls are usually very good about that. I think women's butts are the most amazing things. When I combine rimming with fingering the clit or finger f***ing, the girl usually has an amazing orgasm.

Having said that, I have found only 1 girl willing to do it to me. I have an inshape butt, clean, very little hair but girls just won't do it. I wish I could find girls who would. The one time I had it done to me, it was amazing!

AJtogo · Answer

I love it.  It's so close to where I'm concentating anyway so there's not much more effort to move your tongue a couple of inches.

katiesmuff · Answer

I agree it is weird and I personally would not let anyone do that to me and I certainly am not doing it to anyone.  Anything anal is off limits in my book.  That orfice has one purpose and one purpose only!

hottie69 · Answer

he wants to please you & if you don't like it or just think its weird but yet not say anything he might think you are enjoying it that's why he is always trying to do it.

lefthand · Answer

Its called "rimming" and can be very, very pleasurable for both parties. It is suggested that everyone shower first and that you have your tests up to date (Hep B and C can be passed by rimming). As a guy, I am very, very happy when a female partner is willing to engage in anal play, its a big point in her favor.

Cryostatic · Answer

I don't know, my girlfriend loves it when I do that to her.

Bronzybrownchick · Answer

That's gross sorry and it doesn't mean that because the majority do it, it's acceptable. I certainly wouldn't want my lips to touch with a guys mouth who had a history of licking ass.

thtdiablo · Answer

I do consider it an unhealthy pleasure... It has a certain attraction until you think of what actually comes out (and might still be stuck there when he does). In fact there's a variety of infections he can pick up there. Anyways, your call... I never would, there are enough other pleasures.

wonderingwhy · Answer

I think it's really just another hole to be filled, so why not. I like it, giving it and receiving it. It all just depends on what you are into. I say yes ;-p

1000111001 · Answer

people are into different things. If its not that much of an issue for you, let him do it.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

He's a freak.  You deserve better.

CuriousEddie · Answer

Your butt must be extra tasty!

goodtimescp · Answer

It's awesome as long as its clean.

pumba22 · Answer

I believe oral in the ass is gross. I personally wouldn't touch anywhere close to that with my tongue, but I have never gotton it done to me before so I don't know what it feels like. =)

G-Daz · Answer

Perhaps he's suggesting that you and him both need to be aware of savings in the current economic climate. He is volunteering to replace the toilet roll,

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