My guy friend keeps talking about my sex life, wtf....

He's my best friend on my cycling team. He and I have a ton in common-scarily so. We love the same music, movies, and have most of our opinions on things exactly the same. We've both even commented on how much we have in common. Hell, we discovered last night that we have the same favorite episode of Big Bang Theory. He's the kind of guy that saw my new bike didn't have my pedals installed yet, and he moved the pedals from my old bike to my new one without my asking. He also makes sure that I don't get dropped when we ride and offers me water on a long, hot ride when he noticed my new bike didn't have water cages yet. He's also heard when I've spoken about something off with my bike and the next time he sees my bike, even if it's a week or two later, he immediately goes to fix whatever wasn't working right. Anyway, he's a great guy and one of my closest friends. He's currently dating another girl on the team, a really good friend of mine. I'm currently friends with benefits with a guy on the team that all of us are friends with. (All four of us are our own little click within the team) Anyway, every single time that my guy friend and I are together- we ride together, drink together, watch movies, I take him to my lake house, blah blah blah. We've all crashed together when traveling for a race, etc- he ALWAYS brings up my sex life with my FWB. It'll be the most random times, but it'll eventually come up. For example, yesterday it was during our ride, as we were powering up a steep hill. My question is this. Why do guys think about other people's sex lives so much?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I feel no one girl ever wants to hear this but for guys being friends with a girl you are attracted to is something that simply does NOT work.

    I am sure there is some weird exception out there but the universal response is getting upset and sayings "well that is just every guy you know...". I consider myself a good guy (not a "nice guy" who is passive aggressive) who always ends things on good terms where possible (some situations like lying and whatnot are exceptions but that has only happened to me once). I am very sincere and also honest with myself which means I say to women I am attracted to "We can't be 'just friends'... it simply won't work. It is annoying that this is the case but that is the simple truth of it". I could be wrong of course but this sounds like his own desires leaking through the "I'm just friends" denial wall.

    • Bahahaha! Yeah. Pretty much just like that.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I think he's attracted to you and gets off on hearing about your sex life, even though he's taken. Unless it makes you uncomfortable, just laugh it off.

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  • He might be jealous.

  • he wants to f*** you