Girls: how long do you have to rub your clitoris before you orgasm?

[Anonymous]

I've never been able to orgasm this way; maybe I'm not doing it long enough? how long do you have to rub it for?

[Anonymous]

Some young women can be pretty inorgasmic in their 20s. The good news is their sex drive picks up in their 30s and 40s... My partner had a big problem when she was younger.

Also, it can be a question of letting go, and just enjoying yourself. If you don't have a misplaced guilt complex about p*rn or vibrators it does help, I feel...

For a guy, cumming is more mechanical!

[Opinion Owner]

If I'm masturbating my partner, it could take me 5-10 minutes... and that too it depends which day of her (menstrual) cycle she is on. There are some days where she's wet, wants to come, and manages it after awhile. On other days, she's more dry and edgy, and just doesn't want to clamax, asking me to focus on my own fun. The reason I need to use my hand, mouth or a vibrator on her is that some women -- I think -- are slower in coming.

[Opinion Owner]

Also, it's tougher for both to claimax when you're into straight, plain vanilla sex... so one-at-a-time works fine for us... You need patience and faith for this~!

[Anonymous]

Rub around the clit, by using the clitoral hood. that should work, helped my girlfriend out a lot.

[helpha]

How do you masturbate? If you rub your clit it should feel good, if it doesn't you should figure out what you're doing wrong or if there's something wrong with you down there. Maybe you're not touching the right spot. Because almost every girl feels something when they touch their clitoris, its just HOW they get off.

[Asker]

:S I always expected that I couldn't orgasm :(

[helpha]

NO almost everyone can orgasm or come when thejust masturbate.. maybe you need to watch p*rn or something.. if you're touching your clit and you don't feel anything you might have to ask a doctor or someone. I'm not sure, I'm no doctor, but I do know that plenty of girls come when they masturbate.

[Anonymous]

It's one of the things that turns me on the most to be honest

If I'm trying to go fast, it would take me a while tbh but building the pace up wouldn't take me longer than five minutes

Oddly enough, using my right hand helps me finish faster than using my left hand

[leximarie]

for me, like 2-5 minutes, but everyone is different, you have to see what works for you, have you tried toys?

[smallbean1236]

why does rubbing the clit make a woman feel good?

[Anonymous]

I only have to rub it for about 4 minutes! Some girls take a lot longer though!

[Asker]

what does it feel like as you're rubbing. for the most part I feel nothing.