Do guys notice when they are about to cum?

me and my boyfriend were dry humping and then he came, and he got it on my underwear so I told him why didn't he tell me he was about to cum he said he "didn't notice" and I ask him how does he not know when he's gonna come and he said that he was distracted and he didn't notice it. is this true? if a guy is paying attention to something else can they not know/feel they're about to cum?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Do guys notice when they are about to cum? Absolutely. Aw...ArW ... AW ...aW! YEEESS! AW MAN I Jizzed in my pants...

    Tell your Boyfriend to start masturbating more often. His d*** is way too sensitive.

    You could always help him by giving him Top Class BJ's / Tell him to tap your shoulder or push you away before he reaches the " No Coming Back point ".

    Wait 30 sec before starting again.

    Take this advice coming from a guy that makes ladies come first.

  • He's lying threw his teeth. What most likely happened is he got caught up in the moment and was unable to stop himself. This is partially why some guys don't last long in bed. They get close to orgasm, and its like a tractor beam. Your brain just won't let you stop because it feels to good.

    • so he lied because he's embarrased? also is it true if guys don't jerk off for a while and then when they do they come pretty fast?

    • Yes, and yes. Any time a guy has an orgasm, he becomes less sensitive. The lack of sensitivity diminishes over time. Usually the first 20min-hour its near impossible to orgasm again, And after about 24-48 hours, we have full feelings back. After the first 20min or so, its not a complete numbness, just a slight drop in sensitivity, making it just a bit harder to orgasm and usually allowing you to last at least a few minutes longer or more.

Most Helpful Girls

  • BAHAHAHAHA! I don't know if you've never come yourself but if you have... Have you ever just not noticed the build up?

    • lmfao :)

  • He wanted to cum...

    Wanted to come on you..

    Knew if he said something..

    You would make him stop..

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  • He just wanted to enjoy the fun and come on your underwear give the guy a break Id'a done the same thing if I wasn't pounding your little kitten properly

  • If there's a lot of stimulation below the head it can get rather hard to feel the difference. That feeling, itself, it quite orgasmic.

  • thats BS. he should have felt it coming

    • totaly

  • I think your boyfriend is lying, there's no way a guy can't feel they are about 2 cum.

    • even if they're distracted or have something else on their mind?

    • I doubt it

  • Yes they do

  • Believe me I can feel when I am gonna cum. Very hot thick liquid bursting out of a tiny hole. Oh you know

  • Wow he needs help :P. I ALWAYS know when I am close to cumming. He needs to have a few more orgasms lol. He also may be full of crap and made an excuse.

  • Yes, we notice.

  • it felt good and he didn't want to stop...what he said was just making excuses for it.

    • that's probably what it was. but still, come on dude you knew it was comming.(no pun intended:)

  • I don't think it's true. I think he just hit the point of no return, and there was no point in saying anything then.