Ladies, why can some guys give you multiple orgasms, but not others?

Ladies, what's the difference between a guy that can give you multiple orgasm, and a guy that can't? And I don't want the answer to be "a guy that can, is a guy that gives me multiple orgasm, and a guy that can't, is a guy that doesn't". I'm leaving the questions somewhat vague to encourage all kinds of different answers.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I agree with the comfortable answer. Only man that makes me squirt is my husband. I don't thank any other man has e end made me cum. And I was deeply in love with someone.e else before. I still think about that other Guy sometimes.

    I think its because my husband pays attention to me sexually and we are that close to.each other. the other Guy seemed to.care but when in the moment. Essential paying attention. To me at all.

  • I think it's the comfort and psychological connection. I've only ever had 2 guys out of 6 give me orgasms, and I was really close with both of them. Also, it's a turn on when guys take directions from us and learn how to turn us on instead of winging it and hoping it works.

  • It's not always about comfort it's also does he know what to do if a guy can not do what Heneeds to its no going to make you have the big o. I have been with a few that was random hook up that gave me multiple o but my ex husband never did so experience do play in that

Most Helpful Guy

  • She's just not that comfortable with him yet. She isn't as interested physically in that second guy. Maybe the second guy hasn't found that combination to get her multiples yet.

    • thanks kermit.

    • Sure thing Anonymous Dude

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  • Its simple. She's not as comfortable with him yet. In order to have multiples a girl needs to be relaxed AND she has to be comfortable talking to the guy (and showing him) what she likes.

  • Yes, there are psychological connections, but no matter how aroused a woman is or how much she loves the guy, it doesn't mean she'll orgasm.

    It doesn't devalue the man in any way.

  • No, it's that some women can have multiple orgasms and others can't. Some women squirt and others can't. 80 percent can't even have one with vaginal intercourse alone.

    For a guy: persistence and attention to her needs is key.

    • This except for I think a little more than 20% can orgasm through penetration with just the penis if that's what she means, yes the clit may be aroused to an extent with the pubic bone. I think girls are either biologically able to have multiple orgasms or they aren't. From what I understand true multiple orgasms would be almost one after the other with very little refractory period. Of course if a girl is uncomfortable with the guy it would likely restrain her.