What does 50/50 mean?

[whyme55678]

So I have this female friend who I've been friends with for 10plus year. We do everything together she has been in some pretty sh*ty relationships but what female hasn't. Well recently as of last year and a half we started sleeping together. We've went out several. Times but. Then all of a sudden she puts distance between us. No matter what i do it comes to a point were she will stop seeing. Her birthday just past and I got her something and now she has distance her self away from me. So when I ask her what's up she says she is 50/50. What does that mean because I love her cause this has been my friend forever almost. So what do I need to do cause she gets mad when I talk to other girls and don't answer the phone but then she isn't ready or she 50/50 help me out females

[originalmountaindew]

I think she wants your attention, love, care, etc but isn't IN LOVE with you the same way you are with her. Since you 'love' her, you'd probably continue to see her, care for her, have sex with her,etc.

If I were you, I'd tell her straight up that you want a monogamous relationship with her but if that isn't what she wants you're okay with that. However, she has no rights to be angry, give you silent treatments, etc if you talk with or have sex with other girls.

See what she does. If she does not eventually get into a relationship with you, she doesn't have romantic feelings for you at all. I mean, at all. (That's what I think.)

She probably likes you as a friend, loves your attention, etc but she probably does not have romantic feelings for you and most likely it will not develop if you continue to do the same things you've always done.

Good luck.

[omgwtflol]

^^ agree completely

[whyme55678]

So why not just leave me alonethan... instead of just keeping me for the way I make her feel

[originalmountaindew]

Cuz it feeds her ego. That's usually why people get into relationships anyways, because of how the other person makes them feel. You make her feel special, worthy, etc without her giving you anything. That's a good deal for her isn't it?

[whyme55678]

I guess if you put it that way. I guess this is my que to walk away then right?

[originalmountaindew]

Right if you can. It's easier said than done. If possible, have no contact for a month. Absolutely no contact. If she has real genuine feelings for you, they won't go away so don't be worried about that. If I were you, I'd walk away.

[whyme55678]

Well I told her that I want a relationship with her and she told me she isn't ready for all of that. I told her am fine with that. So she continued to want my attention so I ignored her not because she said she wasn't ready more because I think its best that I start to distance myself from her. Well now she is calling me posting things on my Facebook about times we hung out and not only that she is posting things on my Facebook like you never come over my house anymore pretty much running off othe

[MyThoughts]

she has one foot in and one foot out in your relationship...its a yes I love you or no I can't see you anymore. either way when she comes arounds and starts talking to you it can be a drastic change in yall lives.

[posted]

50/50 is chance. Say we were both drinking a glass of water and there was poison in one. The chance would be 50/50 you would get the poisoned one. No idea what she is talking about, she may have no idea what she is even saying >.>