I'm the one that doesn't agree with the hole aspect of "friends with benefits". It's easier to f*** someone, than to try to have a real relationship. But with this website I'm not going to judge, but to help you find the reasonable explanation to the question at hand.
I believe, and this is just my view on the subject, but I think he's having some form of feelings for you. As your last response said "it makes me think they're dating, but haven't put a label on it." So to some degree it's the facts that sex can make feelings happen. Sex, isn't just sex, but a chemistry both parties have. I doubt you'd screw anyone else that your not somewhat attracted to, and have some form of feelings for.
So it comes down to what I addressed, is that I think he's having some form of feelings for you. Hell if I'd be screwing someone, I'd have some feelings myself. If you don't have any feelings after, then I think there's something wrong, (forgive me for saying, but mentally).2 0 0 0friends with benefits is relationship jr. Itbis the beginning stage of a legit relationship before you know each well enough to date. The guy likes you as a girlfriend and is either in denial or is afraid responding right away will end the sex you are already having.
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Did you hang out much before you became friends with benefits, or watch movies and stuff? If you did then I would say that he is just doing what you both are used to, and you guys just added the benefits... However if it's all new then maybe he is starting to feel something.. Because usually there is no cuddling or movie watching... Because in my opinion that are leads to feelings.. After listening to my guy friends, if they just want the " benefit" the staying afterward wouldn't happen..
1 0 0 0We only would watch movies in his room or workout together. And when we watched movies we wouldn't even sit close to each other. Now it is totally different, and so like after we have sex we watch a movie and cuddle. He says he cares for me. What I don't understand is why he cares about my health and wants me to stop some of my bad habits.
He told you he cares for you.. When someone does that it's only natural that they don't want anything bad to happen to you. So that's why he probably wants you to change your bad habits, because he cares. I mean you can care about friends, but now that sex is evolved it changes things... After a while of something being just sex, feelings or emotions are going to be felt.. Since you guys were friends 1st, feelings happen faster.sounds more serious then you're willing to admit to yourself
i guess I justcat magin that he actually likes me for more than just sex.One reason I feel this way is because he doesn't like to be seen in public with me because he's afraid of what others may think, and also, his friends don't like me.
He is enjoying the benefits of having a woman around him, you know without the "bitching or the nagging." Let the man live!
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0 3His benefit with you is also cuddling and I think that is very sweet.
0 1 0 0You sound like my friend who just recently broke up with his girlfriend and the girl he's supposedly "just f***ing". They cuddle afterward like you two, it makes me think they're dating but haven't put a label on it
0 0 0 0There aren't any rules to it :) Just do what feels just right.
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