Why do men become possessive after sex?

I have a friends with benefits and we just had sex a couple days ago, and while my feelings for him have remained the same, he's really changed... Show More

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  • I am one of those people who really dislike generalizations. Not all men become possessive after sex. Some do, others don't. He in all likelihood had feelings for you above and beyond FWB. He agreed to the terms so he could spend time with you but once he had sex with you, things sort of escalated and now he's full on hooked. You can probably get him dialed back for awhile but I'm guessing he's never gonna really be comfortable with this arrangement so you have some decisions to make. Best of luck!