I had sex with my best guy friend... now what should I do?

"Ralph" and I have been best friends for the past two years. We're both young- 19 and single. We tell each other everything! We've hooked up before, but never gone all the way because 1) I obviously don't do that with my "friends" and 2) I thought it would ruin our friendship. Finally it happened. The question is what to do now? Like I mentioned before we're SUPER close attracted to each other physically, mentally whatever but I don't feel any different & I don't know if he does. Should we talk about it or drop it? Are we friends with benefits now or can we ever be "just friends" again? GUYS I need your opinion and GIRLS your stories. I don't want to dwell on this much longer so I need to know if I should just let this go cause I will. I don't want a bf(commitment problem) but I could see myself being his gf... I just definitely don't want to lose him as a friend! Please HELP! What should I do?

Thanks for reading, thanks for caring!

oh and p.s. the very next morning(!), his friend was trying to get at me and he knew and didn't say shit! matter?


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  • well I think you should be his girlfriend

    i think ur just afraid cause of ur recent exp. with guys

    and they were prob asshol*s to you

    cause you said "SUPER close attracted to each other physically, mentally whatever" so y not go out with him?

    and def talk about it cause most likely he feels the need to speak about it as well

    cause ur his best friend and such

    if you don't there will always be that weird chemistry between you two.

    and do not let go at all

    cause you both will be hurt and will lose each others best friend

    but talk to him and see if he wants to continue the relationship as

    boyfriend and girlfriend

    but do NOT become friends with benefits cause when that eventually ends

    u most likely won't be friends and e more (from my experience)

    cause this is what happens

    iin the beginning you both like it and think this is the best thing in the world

    how you can still have sex yet flirt with other people

    but soon enough one of you will want more (meaning relationship) (most of the time the girl-sorry for stereo typing)

    and the other most likely will not want to

    and then the girl will keep on being friends with benefits

    thinking she will eventually make "ralph" crack and become

    a couple

    but that doesn't happen

    well in reality at least

    but make sure you do one thing

    if you become a couple is that you don't end on bad terms

    because if you do then you won't become friends after that

    and after ur become a couple ur relationship with him will never be the same

    idk in a bad way or a good way

    its up to you 2 to figure that out

    good luck =)

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      Thank you =)